eevee wrote: ↑Fri May 06, 2022 11:38 pm
I'm just so tired of this. I get he has depression but his therapist is validating him too much and not actually pushing him toward a solution. The fact that he thought his opinions in the first hour of this video would be socially acceptable to voice is shocking. He really seems out of touch.
I feel hopeless for daniel. I really hope he gets help that better supports him.
I mean, him posting this, moving forward with the tour, and moving forward with his career
is the solution in this case? like, he's actively doing something to better his situation instead of giving up after YTO demolished his plans. that's the healthy thing to do, that's what a good therapist would encourage.
his opinions in the first hour, at least in regards to what it's like being a creator on YouTube, is not unique in the slightest. that's kind of why a lot of people found it too long, bc we all heard it before from other content creators we watch. whether you find it out of touch, okay, but it's "socially acceptable" bc it's a commonly held belief by creators and usually received positively by viewers. there are always outliers of course and everyone's entitled to their own opinion on whether it's out of touch, but his review of the YouTube creator landscape is a pretty bland, "socially acceptable" one.
as for the sexuality and privacy thing, I don't think he needs to "take responsibility" for formspring answers he made while he was a teenager before he became famous. Like, that kind of information wasn't very common knowledge, it just feels like that because we're here on IDB the sherlock capital of the world. aside from outliers, people kept that stuff within the fandom. the valentine's day video, for example, is the biggest "proof" yet it wasn't spread around, it was kept within phan circles where you basically had to be an active part of the phandom to even know about it. The stuff like his and phil's early communications, the stuff he'd be "taking responsibility for" weren't very widespread things.
most people didn't know about that stuff, and even if he never posted it there were going to be gay rumours no matter what. It was early 2010s and they were two attractive best friends living together who weren't traditionally masculine. people on BBC radio 1 were going to make gay jokes
on air about them regardless of Dan's early internet history. even if he was Kendall Roy level rich, it still objectively sucks for someone who's not out
I don't see how it's wrong to talk about it. If he was talking about "oh darn, I can't afford a nice car or something" that's one thing, but just because Dan's rich doesn't mean he can't talk about stuff that hurt him? Elton John's richer than sin but that doesn't mean he shouldn't talk about his history of drug abuse or homophobia he's faced.