Dare I say that there is nothing quite as painful for a gay person as falling for a straight guy. Luckily with Dan I don't have to think about that (anymore). It would have been painful indeed to have liked him in 2012 for example. I know he is taken, but I guess I can still have feelings for him :r...

I am so happy that both of the guys came out as their true selves. It is still needed after all, since apparently you are deemed at most bisexual no matter how much you imply you like the same sex, unless you explicitly state otherwise. That's the heteronormativity of this world that you have to lik...

There was a stream Dan did last year, in which he said that while he had friends, he felt like the stream chats were a substituent for not having enough of them, at least not enough people to talk with about all the various topics he enjoys. That's why I think he probably is open for the idea of mak...

I know everyone is tired of bed discourse, but since we have a newbie... I think it’s hilarious that most people in our corner of fandom accept that Phil sleeps on the left and Dan on the right (the opposite of how they sit on camera). There’s so much evidence of this. Keep in mind that not only we...

I wish I could go back ten years and tell my younger self to message 'danisnotonfire' on all platforms, lol.

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So I was wrong about that too FML

I was kinda surprised that Phil said he was gay, because I thought he was possibly asexual. Dan has such a dirty mind in comparison, or then he is just more unfiltered. Phil seems so kawaii that I can't even imagine him having sex.

I'm curious, GalaxyDarling , how did you find IDB? I think my first visit was a week ago when I was Googling for the V-Day video drama (Dan's Tumblr rants) and someone had made a comprehensive post about it here with screenshots. There was also a video playlist of Daniel's character development reg...

We all thought that everyone knew the whole story, so no one would try to get between dan and phil. now that i'm seeing that's not the case, i'm getting very curious as to what's happening in dan's DMs. so please, report back when you do! I would love to reach Dan eventually as a friend. I would ne...

What other videos of his (or theirs, if you're watching joint content) are you liking? My favorite joint content are the baking vids and then that one where they are singing My Heart Will Go On together! :love1: Phil really loves that song, and so do I. I like Dan's YouNow streams where he talks ab...

DryCereal wrote: ↑Wed Jul 03, 2019 7:38 pm Piece of advice, if I may... he seems to appreciate people being brave/forthright on facebook, so if you're looking to impress...

I was wondering if "slide in the DMs" meant only Twitter or Instagram, lol

Hey, I just wanna welcome you to the forum and the fandom. Hope you don’t feel like we’re ganging up on you or anything. It’s the topic we’ve been going over so many times here so clearly people are having strong opinions about it. :) but yeah, I’m in the “they’re together” camp too You are very sw...

Ablissa wrote: ↑Wed Jul 03, 2019 7:23 pmI'm starting to suspect you're just trying to get a rise out of people, so I'll stop engaging from this post on.

Please don't. Like I said above, I'm novel to the phandom, so I jumped the gun here. That's why I came here, for I knew you girls would have the answers.

eevee wrote: ↑Wed Jul 03, 2019 7:23 pm Genuine question, are you new to the phandom?

Yes, I've been binging so much since I saw Daniel's coming out video. I'm sorry if my ignorance shows. I was honestly curious to see what you think of the nature of their relationship.

I'm curious to see their next video together, or just seeing them together, period, whenever that may be. At Pride possibly? I mean to see if their dynamic is different now as out gays compared to the closeted for the public period.

Not dizzy but I'm just trying to clarify- are you saying that you won't believe that they're a romantic couple unless they perform on camera for you? That can't be what you mean, right? Well, not if they wish to be private about it, which seems to be the case here... If they were more candid about ...

I'm sorry if I sound thirsting or speculating too much. I don't want any harm for either of the boys.

@alittledizzy, if they were a couple, wouldn't they share the bedroom? If Dan was taken, why would he ask for cute mutuals to slide in his DMs? They have never kissed on or held hands. I'm not an anti, rather someone who is an outsider and is trying to look at this from a different perspective.

I answer here to what @ablissa posted as the last post in the previous thread. Daniel said at the end of that coming out vid that "cute mutuals slide in the DMs". I think mutuals in this case means fellow gays. He also said that what he had with Phil was "more than romantic", and...

I just registered after lurking since Dan came out. I'm a gay guy myself :prideheart2:. I find Dan mighty handsome :love1:. I'd like to ask you all is it feasible that Dan and Phil are not boyfriends? It seems like Dan might be looking for a boyfriend, or at least open for that idea? Phil is more of...