I'm asking myself the same thing. I do sometimes find dark humour hilarious, but there are things that I just can't find funny and "death to all jews" is among it.mio wrote:I'm genuinely curious what you/other people find funny about "death to all jews" or making a guy say "hitler did nothing wrong". It's not even about being offended, I just don't get how it's supposed to be a joke. Maybe I just havent spent enough time on 4chan in my teens to get it.
The way I see it humor works because it always has a grain of truth in it - if you say something completely detatched from reality without context, it wouldn't be funny.
So even if you say it "just as a joke" it will stick as some kind of association in people's heads - furthering prejustices or in the worst case validating assaulters.
I don't know what exactly is so appealing about dark humour. Maybe it is the inappropriateness (is that a word?) of it or that it is so close to reality that it hurts. I am definitely all for equality for everyone, yet I still find myself laughing about some stuff that I wouldn't find funny if it was happening in real life. Mostly I sit there and think "ouch, that's nasty" and chuckle. Yet there are things that are too horrible for me to laugh about, like the holocaust or a tragedy that just happened/affects me personally.
I also find it important who the person is that tells the joke. If a feminist makes a sexist joke it's very different to when a sexist does the exact same thing. Because you know the feminist doesn't mean it, the sexist actually does. And the feminist and the sexist don't find the same joke funny for the same reason. The sexists finds it funny to oppress and demean women/people with feminine features, the feminist just likes to be inappropriate. And that is actually a huge difference.
As I said in the other post, the audience matters as well. You also mentioned how jokes can further prejudices or validate assaulters and that's definitely true. Using dark humour should always be restricted to a group of people who aren't going to believe in the content of the jokes. Children should never be exposed to dark humour because it can have a very bad influence on them.
You are also right that there is a grain of truth in humour. However, it doesn't mean that that truth is your own view, it can just be the event that happened and you find it funny because it is inappropriate, not because you actually like it.
It's difficult to describe the appeal of dark humour. I think it is something you have to be very, very careful with. I personally only joke about myself and my problems in a very dark way to be sure I don't offend anyone. I also sometimes feel bad because I find some dark humour funny, even though I know I don't actually believe in that stuff
Everyone should be careful with what they joke about and also consider not laughing everything away. Because that way we can excuse most things with dark humour and that would be fatal.