i love her so much omg. wonder if martyn will say anything?
i hope he gets as many lovely tweets from other creators as dan did! i know privacy is he thing but i stan supportive internet people pls
You bet I'm going to stalk their reddit account until they find out. I'll get sick satisfaction, no matter their reaction.Catallena wrote: ↑Sun Jun 30, 2019 10:29 pmYep, see spoiler in quotepilotlight wrote: ↑Sun Jun 30, 2019 10:26 pmIs this actually a thing? I'm sure Janice is shocked at the news.
This! I was a little surprised but I was having trouble putting a finger on why I was. Not in a negative way or anything, just I guess I had imagined him as maybe not caring/identifying with any particular label, but I'm happy to be wrong. (Not that I wouldn't be happy if he opted not to label himself, but ykwim.)000dia000 wrote: ↑Sun Jun 30, 2019 11:14 pm
While I know we're still fresh off the video and that people aren't really picking at things he has said as of yet...is anybody else a little surprised that he's very resolutely gay? And that he's been sure since he was a teenager? I'm just saying, because he said at one point he said he was bi on formspring, so either fibbed then for whatever reason, or changed identity. (Nothing wrong with that). There's probably more of a story there, but I suppose that's personal to Phil.
Yes Alli's response to the both of them makes me so happy!!alittledizzy wrote: ↑Sun Jun 30, 2019 10:57 pm I love love love Alli being one of the first people to respond to both of them (from the youtube community). For anyone that doesn't follow her, she used to be married to a daily vlogger (Charles Trippy) and came out after she divorced him and has been dating women for the past couple years.
She was also with them in Jamaica and now the moments of her booping Dan's nose while Dan and Phil were laying on the boat and when she called them a 'cute kayak couple' will have even more sentimental value to me.
Please report back if they find out and comment on it. I need some of that satisfaction, it sounds delicious.000dia000 wrote: ↑Sun Jun 30, 2019 11:14 pm When I saw the notification for the video, I lost my mind. We all literally knew he wasn't straight before this from just his tweet alone, and while he said he always thought about making a video, a part of me just thought he would kind of just, never actually, do it.
Him being so open is what I love to see!! He really us the most private person but the expert at making it seem like he's so open.
Anyways, I think we know what secret he told Tyler in that collab video that one time!!
While I know we're still fresh off the video and that people aren't really picking at things he has said as of yet...is anybody else a little surprised that he's very resolutely gay? And that he's been sure since he was a teenager? I'm just saying, because he said at one point he said he was bi on formspring, so either fibbed then for whatever reason, or changedYou bet I'm going to stalk their reddit account until they find out. I'll get sick satisfaction, no matter their reaction.Catallena wrote: ↑Sun Jun 30, 2019 10:29 pmYep, see spoiler in quotepilotlight wrote: ↑Sun Jun 30, 2019 10:26 pmIs this actually a thing? I'm sure Janice is shocked at the news.
Alright, I've deleted it and am not sad to see it go.
I'm on the flip side! Surprised that Phil's been coming out to acquaintances for years, but not at all surprised he comfortably and resolutely identifies as gay. His (adorable) skit about "sideboob" kind of sums it up. I can't think of any time Phil's expressed attraction to a woman. (Including Buffy/SMG, which I see some people poking fun at him for. Admiration but not attraction.)pilotlight wrote: ↑Sun Jun 30, 2019 11:25 pmThis! I was a little surprised but I was having trouble putting a finger on why I was. Not in a negative way or anything, just I guess I had imagined him as maybe not caring/identifying with any particular label, but I'm happy to be wrong. (Not that I wouldn't be happy if he opted not to label himself, but ykwim.)000dia000 wrote: ↑Sun Jun 30, 2019 11:14 pm
While I know we're still fresh off the video and that people aren't really picking at things he has said as of yet...is anybody else a little surprised that he's very resolutely gay? And that he's been sure since he was a teenager? I'm just saying, because he said at one point he said he was bi on formspring, so either fibbed then for whatever reason, or changed identity. (Nothing wrong with that). There's probably more of a story there, but I suppose that's personal to Phil.
mother nature says lgbtq+ rights!nigel ratburn wrote: ↑Mon Jul 01, 2019 12:02 am like an hour after phil posted his video a giant rainbow appeared in the sky where i am
what a wonderful end to pride month
snokoplasmic wrote: ↑Sun Jun 30, 2019 11:58 pm On the topic of how Phil interacts with women: In my experience as a lesbian, it's sometimes way easier for a gay person to joke around and "flirt" with people of the opposite sex, because there's no pressure of accidentally leading someone on if they Know that you're fully not interested, y'know? Like, the pressure comes off and you can suddenly make as many risky jokes as you want because there's an understanding between you two that it's nothing but jokes and it just feels a bit freer
this is a very good point. if he was casually out as gay to everyone around him, how did the phandom not pick up on that? we're the best internet sleuths around. maybe we weren't looking very hard because we all thought he was bi? i think i heard one time that someone was saying phil was gay but i think many people shrugged it off like "he's bi" ???? that is kinda weird. i think phil likely told all his friends that he wasn't out in his career/internet persona but....telling local shopkeepers?? and we didn't hear? what else are we missing??queerofcups wrote: ↑Mon Jul 01, 2019 12:50 am I hear a lot of folks saying they weren't surprised that Phil was casually out to so many people but I really am! Primarily because we've gotten so few (and none overwhelmingly... Idk credible?) hints or slip ups from people around them? I know there was the Cat thing and possibly Louise saying some questionable things but in comparison to the number of people they interact with, idk man, I'd expect them being queer/together to be way more of an active rumour outside of their fan base than it seemed to be?
Truly I'm wondering if they just had everyone signing NDAs or if they're way less famous than we think of them or what. I have so many questions!
I said something about this in the, frankly essay, post I made a few up but I think a big part of it is a combination between them not being massively famous outside a particular swathe of the population and it genuinely being pretty difficult to publicly out someone. Phil is smart enough to ascertain if whoever he’s speaking to has any idea who he is so the odds are pretty good that these random folks wouldn’t think to mention it because why go around telling people about random conversations but if they DID or if they realized it later and said something to anyone....why would we believe them? If a shopkeeper is saying ‘oh yeah I’ve met that guy he told me he’s gay’ I think most of us wouldn’t take it seriously AT all. And industry people absolutely have said things alluding to it and the rumors but without something substantial (video or photographic evidence mostly) they’re just going to be seen as trying to cash in on rumors. And if they did have that substantial proof they’d have to know that doing anything with it publicly would be 1) a huge dick move and 2) probably blow up their career and no one who would benefit from the infamy of posting something like that is likely to have gotten close enough to have that evidence imo.eevee wrote: ↑Mon Jul 01, 2019 1:05 amthis is a very good point. if he was casually out as gay to everyone around him, how did the phandom not pick up on that? we're the best internet sleuths around. maybe we weren't looking very hard because we all thought he was bi? i think i heard one time that someone was saying phil was gay but i think many people shrugged it off like "he's bi" ???? that is kinda weird. i think phil likely told all his friends that he wasn't out in his career/internet persona but....telling local shopkeepers?? and we didn't hear? what else are we missing??queerofcups wrote: ↑Mon Jul 01, 2019 12:50 am I hear a lot of folks saying they weren't surprised that Phil was casually out to so many people but I really am! Primarily because we've gotten so few (and none overwhelmingly... Idk credible?) hints or slip ups from people around them? I know there was the Cat thing and possibly Louise saying some questionable things but in comparison to the number of people they interact with, idk man, I'd expect them being queer/together to be way more of an active rumour outside of their fan base than it seemed to be?
Truly I'm wondering if they just had everyone signing NDAs or if they're way less famous than we think of them or what. I have so many questions!
I actually was always really confused regarding Phil because no matter how I tried I could never imagine him with a woman romantically? And yet I believed him when he talked about girls, like his 'crush' on Sarah Michelle Gellar. My thoughts were always something like, "I can't believe this guy's not gay..."000dia000 wrote: ↑Sun Jun 30, 2019 11:14 pmWhile I know we're still fresh off the video and that people aren't really picking at things he has said as of yet...is anybody else a little surprised that he's very resolutely gay? And that he's been sure since he was a teenager? I'm just saying, because he said at one point he said he was bi on formspring, so either fibbed then for whatever reason, or changed identity. (Nothing wrong with that). There's probably more of a story there, but I suppose that's personal to Phil. Otherwise, I'm also a little surprised that he's gay due to how much they pushed the whole "girlfriend" thing and that Phil always seemed the more flirtatious or suggestive one around girls. I just wonder how much they were indeed putting on a performance for the audience or just how much people blew it out of proportion. ("Look! He isn't gay, he made eye contact with that female!!") It turns out, Phil was friendly towards women, but never actually flirty...he was just genuinely friendly. Nevertheless, Phil for some reason really is that gay person that goes under the expert "gaydar" of straight people (and maybe even gay people?) in that he isn't what people typically expect a gay guy to be. He never got as much speculation or confusion as Dan, and a lot more people thought he was straight, or at most bi. I'm not sure how other people feel about this, but I'm really interested in talking about it. Thoughts???