black_rat wrote:As this is all pure speculation, i would assume that what is holding him back, firstly, is that he would have to figure out how open he would want to be about this, how much he would address things that he has said in the past, but also how this would change his YouTube branding. With that I mean that he would not only "come out" to the phandom, but this would also reach other youtubers and the media, etc, and he might not want to draw more attention to this specific aspect.
This is a pretty good point, I think. Officially coming out would also make it obvious to casual watchers who might not have caught on yet since they don't watch every video, might not follow him on Twitter and so on. And it would affect his branding, I agree. I have a feeling Dan doesn't want to be "that lgbtq youtuber" like Tyler Oakley is for instance but peoples' perception of him would change and he might not want that. Also we still live in a homophobic and biphobic society. It's gotten a lot better but we're not there yet and coming out to the whole entire world is a big step to take. It would attract homophobes on social media and probably irl too and if he's scared of that, especially after what happened in 2012, I get that. It would probably also fire up new speculations about his and Phil's relationship status and if they're together, that's another thing they apparently don't want out in the open at the moment.
Or maybe he just doesn't want a big coming out. Coming out is not important to all lgbtq people, our happiness doesn't always depend on it. Dan has spoken about living his truth but that doesn't mean sharing his truth with the whole world, right? I personally think he is done hiding but that doesn't have to affect what he chooses to put online. We don't really know what he does in private, if his real life friends and family know, etc. I think that would be way more important to most people than telling their internet fanbase.
Baguette joke: Eh, I don’t think it‘s funny but I have no idea who runs that account. If it’s a straight person throwing around homophobic slurs, can they not? But maybe they’re not, no idea. But I’m convinced Dan is a mlm so I think it’s okay he liked it. That’s how reclaiming works after all, you take a slur that is meant to hurt you and you use it proudly or make fun of it. So I’m on the fence about the original tweet but I can’t say I blame Dan for liking it.