Dan & Phil Part 87: post coming out universe

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sapienveneficus wrote: Sat Jul 06, 2019 11:08 am Is anyone else genuinely shocked that Phil isn't there? Seeing the pictures I want to be thrilled for Dan and the journey it took for him to get to this moment, but my brain won't shut off the constant drum of," Where's Phil? Why on earth wouldn't he be there?" that keeps running on a loop. It doesn't make any sense. Phil's come out, he's released his video before London Pride, and and Dan are together (in whatever way you want to define that), why isn't he there?
Dan is radiating happiness and I'm so thrilled for him. I did expect to see Phil there with him too though. My hope is he will show up later, and I'm clinging to it.
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sapienveneficus wrote: Sat Jul 06, 2019 11:08 am Is anyone else genuinely shocked that Phil isn't there? Seeing the pictures I want to be thrilled for Dan and the journey it took for him to get to this moment, but my brain won't shut off the constant drum of," Where's Phil? Why on earth wouldn't he be there?" that keeps running on a loop. It doesn't make any sense. Phil's come out, he's released his video before London Pride, and and Dan are together (in whatever way you want to define that), why isn't he there?
Hmm, I see where you're coming from. But I would say as it looks like Dan is marching, perhaps that Dan wanted to do that on his own? As Phil seems to have been more open with sexuality over the years he may have been to pride events before whereas this is more of a big moment for Dan, plus if they were to march together it might draw more attention to 'Dan and Phil' rather than Dan being able to enjoy the moment?

I'm imagining Phil will be in the crowd somewhere supporting him!
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livoy wrote: Sat Jul 06, 2019 11:16 am Hmm, I see where you're coming from. But I would say as it looks like Dan is marching, perhaps that Dan wanted to do that on his own? As Phil seems to have been more open with sexuality over the years he may have been to pride events before whereas this is more of a big moment for Dan, plus if they were to march together it might draw more attention to 'Dan and Phil' rather than Dan being able to enjoy the moment?

I'm imagining Phil will be in the crowd somewhere supporting him!
I agree with your sentiment! I just think it may be unrealistic for Phil to have been to any pride events before. The risk of being seen by a fan was much too high.
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All black for Pride, really? LOL. Love him though :wavingflag:
Maybe we will see some sequins/glitter later today.
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I sincerely hope phil isn’t sick or anything. Dan looks happy so I’m happy for him but ngl it’d be nice to catch a glimpse of phil too. All the “courage to exist” signs that I saw on Twitter people put up along the way are so sweet. I hope dan sees them. :prideheart2:
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Dan hung out with the furries :happytears: :prideflag: In conclusion, I stan harder than ever before :stan:
Maybe Phil just really doesn’t like crowds like that so it’s fair if he doesn’t show up. All that matters to me rn is how happy and radiant Dan is looking right now! :pride: :wavingflag: :love2:
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The official London pride account is following both dan and Phil so idk if that means anything but Phil could just be attending events later.
I think the bigger shock would have been if Phil was in the parade marching - that’s really never been his thing
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Showing his courage to exist :prideheart2:
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Dan is so fucking HAPPY and I've had two hours of sleep and I'm crying.
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PolarFox wrote: Sat Jul 06, 2019 11:20 am Dan hung out with the furries :happytears: :prideflag: In conclusion, I stan harder than ever before :stan:
Maybe Phil just really doesn’t like crowds like that so it’s fair if he doesn’t show up. All that matters to me rn is how happy and radiant Dan is looking right now! :pride: :wavingflag: :love2:
Yeah I get super overwhelmed in crowds so I probably wouldn't be able to cope at such a large pride so maybe it's just that? It would have been really nice to see him there though, so fingers crossed for later! :pride: :prideheart2:

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ahh ^^ that's one of my fave pics of him ever. it's the gay glow!
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Each and every photo of him is just Pure Joy and Happiness and Pride and FREEDOM and I'm just like. Yeah. I love you Dan. Be happy. :prideheart2: :prideheart2: :prideheart2: :prideheart2:
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Look at him and his biiig smile :')

Bit surprised about Phil but I do hope to see him surface later.
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Just woke up. Emotionally unprepared.

So painfully happy for him. He looks so ecstatic. He’s doing such wonderful things.

I love Dan sososo much.

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Happy Pride, IDB! :wavingflag:
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Welcome to all the new members, it's lovely to see so many new people come along!!

Also I'm just :happytears: :happytears: :happytears:

No words. Just crying and pride. I'm so fucking happy for him <3
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susan2 wrote: Sat Jul 06, 2019 11:43 am :prideheart2:
all this dan at pride content is making me so happy, he's really living his best gay life just now :wavingflag:

so he's marching in the stonewall (+ mermaids and black pride) group, nice! i was trying to figure out what group those t-shirts represented
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aw, he looks so happy in all the photos i've seen! and lmao his sign :wavingflag:

and it's still early, they might both go to things later or something. or it might not just be phil's kind of thing, idk. i guess we'll see :love1:
hopefully i'll come back to a lot of happy things later!

once again, it just makes me feel so happy and proud of him
especially since i'm not really there yet myself
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Dan looks so happy and absolutely glowing but not gonna lie, if we don't get anything from Phil I will be sad. I don't necessarily mean something joint, I just want to enjoy Phil at his first pride as an out and proud man that had the courage to come out to his audience of millions, is that too much to ask ;_;

Still so much love for Dan showing us just how brave he is and how much he cares :happytears:
Will probably never be over the BONCAS and the beauty of Phil Lester.

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There are any number of reasons why Phil wouldn't be with Dan, but it seems like maybe Stonewall just didn't ask Phil (for one thing, there hasn't been much time between his coming out video and Pride to organize things), and Dan's focusing on supporting good causes and not on bringing his partner to Pride.
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