I think context is super important in this case. That is a question Dan clearly never wanted to be asked and never really has been asked publicly.feenix wrote: ↑Thu Sep 08, 2022 2:23 pmI've just listened to this and for anyone else interested, it's in Part 1 of the podcast at 24:25.
Chris: "Am I right in saying you were in a relationship when you came out?"
Dan: "Ummmmm no"
What do we think, gang? My first reaction was "bloody hell I can't believe he straight up said no", and my second reaction was that he thought this was a safe space probs and panicked because he's not exactly gonna say yes in that situation, is he? And it would be 1000% more sus if he'd have gone into panic mode and said "um er um well I'm private I don't talk about my relationship status", especially when the rest of the podcast he talks about how honest and open he feels since coming out...
Once again daniel is giving me a headache (I wouldn't have it any other way though hahaha)
He followed up the no with "NNNNNNNo.... This is a good example of something YOU don't want to talk about unless you wanna get your inbox destroyed, ummmm no, my life was a mess...."
Not to like deeply analyze the whole thing, but the phrasing of the question didn't really give Dan any room to obfuscate his response like he would normally do. It's binary, he either says yes or no and obviously for him the safer reaction here was using "no" as, like, a verbal pause. If he said yes, we'd all be losing our absolute shit right now, because we'd have finally gotten the response we've all assumed was true.
So, I think it was a panicked "no", but like... maybe this is me rationalizing and Dan and Phil were definitely not in a serious relationship. Just platonically designing their Forever Home together.