Catallena wrote:I don't really see as just friends or a couple anymore.
I mean, I want them to be a couple and I ship it hard... but nowadays I see them as life partners. I dunno what that entails for them but that's what I call them. Partners. And the longer they stay together, content with their lives and each other without saying anything or coming out and seemingly without desire for a relationship with someone else, the more they prove that to me. Could be romantic or platonic, soulmates can be either, it makes me happy either way.
My best friend theorizes that one day, like in 10 years (fuck our lives), they're gonna stop and realize that they're still together after all these years without anyone else by their sides, and that they have no desire for that to ever change. So they just remain as they are. Together.
I'd cry if they ever went separate ways though, I wish I was joking but...
your post made me weirdly emotional? I think it's mostly because I relate with your view but I still don't have that much peace of mind with random days where I'll be freaking out about are they/aren't they/ i wish they were/etc... lol
I think I would be devastated and cry also if they went separate ways but I'm never ever saying this out loud
idkm8 wrote:The only thing that worries me in the same kind of sense is I think I recall Dan complaining about 'still renting' once or twice which obviously gives us the impression that if and when they leave the London flat he's definitely looking to buy.
I often think about how desperate he is to buy because we either have to face them going their separate ways or ??? would they still try and be ambiguous about literally owning a house together? I know it's a deciding factor for a lot of people in the are they / aren't they debate which they must have thought about also. It's been said a hundred million times but I'm really interested to see what happens after the tour.
At the end of the day, for two people who have seemingly spent almost everyday together for the last 6 years they don't seem to have any desire to get away from each other anytime soon. As of right now they're perfectly happily coexisting whether that be as a couple of as biffles.
Also sorry for my rambling, I'm terribly illiterate.
bolded: you saying this made me realize that I'm one of those people who thinks buying a house would be a decisive factor in that debate and I'm not even ashamed, tbh my biggest hope is that's exactly what they're doing after the tour. But I try to keep myself in check.
Also agree that they must know this and it might have a big impact in their decision-making.
bolded2: This! This right there is why I think it would hurt so bad for us if they went their separate ways, lol. I know that I see their friendship as epic and it's a huge part in why I think phan is so perfect
and why they should be together always to make each other happy and all this sappy shit