Maybe I'm not paying enough attention to other phandom areas outside of this one, but I thought that was basically the accepted narrative here/gg (that Dan was 'taking the hit' and protecting Phil), and that's the reason it doesn't really get talked about much. Because it was just taken as fact. And I'm not sure why it, in either direction, has to be about protecting one person 'more'. Dan took the active and vocal role where the vid is concerned, but he was protecting himself as much as Phil with anything he was doing. Because he was protecting their joint privacy. I don't doubt for one second it was one of the most horrible things that has ever happened in Phil's life, and that it's affected to this day how he portrays himself online and what he chooses to share.alittledizzy wrote:And your second point is one want to slam a thank button down on. Anyone who thinks Dan was more upset by Phil than the vday video has some serious Dan-goggles on. They're different people who express emotions in different ways; if something is big/scary/upsetting to Phil, he's not the person who is going to broadcast it online. That doesn't negate the emotional impact something like that would have had on him though. Dan's behavior was probably a result of many things, but it's weird to see people not even consider that protecting Phil or trying to take the heat off Phil might have been a part of it.000dia000 wrote: 2. Voldy-people bitching about how Dan suffered/behaved, as if Phil didn't literally have a private video of himself released online? Yet made one public mention of it, then ghosted the whole thing. Then people treating Dan as the center of attention, as if he suffered from it. Maybe not acknowledging that his actions were to protect Phil more than himself? Who knows what Phil internalized from this incident, how he felt, yet we make fun of him and annoy him to be more open about his sexuality and personal life as if a person could ever really recover from something so soul destroying?
But what's the use in debating who was affected 'worse' by it? Dan's angry rants and questionable word choice in reaction (even tangentially) to the existence of the video still follow him now, they're the reason people have something to cling to when clamping down on their own heteronormativity to project onto Dan. There's only so much I can assume about how Phil felt about it (or even feels about it these days) because he is a brick wall with certain things, and the obvious assumption is yes, he was mortified/exposed. If that happened to me, I'd be resentful of the internet for the rest of my life, yet he's remarkably un-bitter as far as we see. Like literally though who's making fun of Phil over it, where are you reading this, because I'll fight.
He said it was something they hadn't played before, and that it was fun but stressful. I have no idea what's been heavily requested outside of like Life is Strange and other full 'Let's Play' type of games. I don't get the sense they really want to commit to another series, so hmm. Hopefully console though, get back on the couch and stay there.MoonPride wrote: A classics game that is fun but intense? Maybe Donkey Kong again?
(wait did he even specify if it was that or the Sims we're getting today? It might just be Sims)
edit: wildly off topic but: British people, what the fuck is a polar bear cake? I assumed it was some UK thing and just googled it, and all I'm seeing are.. cakes... shaped like polar bears. Did they literally just buy a full cake each. what.