Dan & Phil Part 100: full-time internet homowners

[Levitating]

Why do you guys think about keeping on this narrative of that "one person" being "life saving"? Doesn't, in a way, risk putting pressure on such person?

It is true that that person can save your life by simply believing in you, but it can also be a extraneous job, specially when associated with life-saving narratives. Perhaps having one person could be better associated with giving you "one further step of the ladder you need to climb".

I don't know. I don't particularly like it, regardless of how genuinely represents DnP's story according to them.

[shan]

Why do you guys think about keeping on this narrative of that "one person" being "life saving"? Doesn't, in a way, risk putting pressure on such person?

It is true that that person can save your life by simply believing in you, but it can also be a extraneous job, specially when associated with life-saving narratives. Perhaps having one person could be better associated with giving you "one further step of the ladder you need to climb".

I don't know. I don't particularly like it, regardless of how genuinely represents DnP's story according to them.

I get what you're saying but I don't think the way he's worded it was ever meant to be taken as putting the responsibility for your well being on another person. The narrative he always spins is that one person listening to you and telling you what you feel is valid can be life saving if you've been existing in an environment where you feel you can't express yourself, be it sexuality, mental health issues etc. It's just the realisation that you're not alone and there are things you can do to improve your situation. As he's said, it doesn't even have to be a friend or partner, it could literally be your GP. Just someone you can confide in when you're in that negative space and that validation can be really important in giving you the push you need to seek help.

If he was touting getting others to shoulder the burden of your issues that would indeed be concerning.

[snoopysadie]

Guys this is Dan and Phil. This photo was likely taken two weeks ago you cannot convince me otherwise.

I also now think this is why Phil saw his family. They came to visit the new apartment.

I am ready for all the photos.

calleeeeeeeeeed iiiiiit! (let's pretend i'm cool and it's not like they've been doing this for years)

i converted 2 friends into the phandom last year and i had a mini pinof marathon with one of them (they're still a baby phan) and i gotta say: watching 10 years worth of videos with them moving together into 3 apartments and sharing a life THE SAME DAY THE PIC WAS POSTED.... was a trip.

i am getting anxiety just from thinking about the new place. and now that i read it here i can't unthink the prospect of a WITL. you know what? let's be hopeful for once. y'all were right about moving hill, and about the 2 apartments AND we never thought they would come out.

let's all manifest the "week in the life" into existence.

[alittledizzy]

[alittledizzy]

Dan don't make promises you aren't prepared to keep.

[fruitcriminals]

Dan don't make promises you aren't prepared to keep.

I can't seem to quote it, as it's from the previous thread but @soveinco the mind-reader did say:
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"Not really related at all, but kind of fun: I found out while looking around online that the "HQ" imprint that it's being published with in the UK is a rebranding of Harlequin UK. (They publish their romance novels under a different imprint in the UK, anyway. But it does explain why it's a different HarperCollins imprint, Dey Street, in the US.)

Dan romance!writer AU when???"
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I'm going to put my money on sexy sci-fi book over memoir considering the lack of any tea at all in the current book.

Considering Phil has an obsession with becoming a robot do we think Phil's the main character in this sci fi erotica? It would make sense, not least because Phil deffo sees himself as the main character of everything (as do I to be fair, why not lol)

[inanerat]

Dan don't make promises you aren't prepared to keep.

I mean seeing as he now has several successful books and has already dipped his toe into the fantasy erotica genre in one of them I think this is a logical next step of his career as an author

I'd read it.

[alittledizzy]

Dream collab: Dan writing the gay scifi erotica, Phil penning the graphic novel and/or screenplay. Dan and Phil, but upgraded professionally.

[snoopysadie]

Quick flashback to The Urge, that fic where vampire!phil pinned dan against a tree, choked him a bit and bit him so they could be vampires together...
dang the boy may have a future in this genre.

[alittledizzy]

A little Phandom Gives reminder - right now we have the charity auction happening! There are fic writers and artists that you can bid on. The person that wins gets a commission in exchange for a donation in that amount to the JustGiving page! It ends on the 31st.

We also have two other auctions happening - they're 'mystery bags' where you don't know what's inside them! The first one comes in a glittery black Japhan backpack, and the second comes in an Interactive Introverts bag. They have a couple merch items each, some art/stickers/other items made by fandom artists, and just some Dan and Phil goodies! (The backpack one may also have something that's more than little cuddly in it.) These auctions also end on the 31st!

[alittledizzy]

Phil lives!

[Levitating]

There is also a IG story with a room full of destroyed boxes! I do not know how to incorporate it here.

But yay, so happy for them. I find it strange that they are the third couple of influencers moving to a new home in London! I also follow LucyMoon on IG and Ling.KT and they are also moving in TODAY/THESE PAST DAYS.
Could it be the same complex? I doubt so, but it's fun to imagine.

I was too young last time I moved houses, so... how long does it take? Days, weeks? before one is settled?

Also, where are all your book reviews! I am dying to read more!

[Catallena]

yes hello instagram story fairy reporting for duty

Love that we finally got an apartment picture that isn't just stairs, but boxes instead

[kavat]

I wonder if they're too busy with moving to watch the new Bo Burnham special but I sure would like Dan's opinion on it.

(It's great, please watch it if you can)

[susan2]

I wonder if they're too busy with moving to watch the new Bo Burnham special but I sure would like Dan's opinion on it.

(It's great, please watch it if you can)

I watched this today too - quite a few moments made me think of Dan - agree great watch, recommend!

[Catallena]

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH

[alittledizzy]

NEW PLACE NEW PLAAAAAAAAAAACE

is that the bedroom?? i see a pillow. or, given that they're moving in, pillow could be anywhere i suppose.

[fruitcriminals]

aww i love that photo I wish he'd switch on emoji responses so we could at least send a heart face now and again.

Re the many moving this weekend - could be cos it's the end of the month so people have to move out of their prior rentals?

[shan]

Love this photo, love the excited stress in their eyes, just love them tbh.

As for which room, going by the giant ass mirror and dark cabinetry in the back it could be the bedroom! Or maybe the office?

[Secretstanner]

NEW PLACE NEW PLAAAAAAAAAAACE

is that the bedroom?? i see a pillow. or, given that they're moving in, pillow could be anywhere i suppose.

I think it is. Looks like a bed and a black side table?? To me looks like a bed horizontal behind them and pillow resting against the headboard. A tiny bit is showing. If you remember from ‘Week in the life of Dan and Phil’ the headboard is really short. The dark/wooden thing in the back looks a lot like the thing they showed us in the hair cut video. Wondering if it’s the same one or they have a few for storage

[shan]

NEW PLACE NEW PLAAAAAAAAAAACE

is that the bedroom?? i see a pillow. or, given that they're moving in, pillow could be anywhere i suppose.

I think it is. Looks like a bed and a black side table?? To me looks like a bed horizontal behind them and pillow resting against the headboard. A tiny bit is showing. If you remember from ‘Week in the life of Dan and Phil’ the headboard is really short. The dark/wooden thing in the back looks a lot like the thing they showed us in the hair cut video. Wondering if it’s the same one or they have a few for storage

You’re totally right! I didn’t see it before but they’re standing right in front of the bed and the pillow is on the mattress. I’m 99% sure the black between them is a blanket.

2021 and taking a joint selfie in their new bedroom, what a world.

[inanerat]

I quite liked the GQ article, felt like a good mix of promo-y things and a little more Dan Thoughts that we haven't heard 5 times already.

The first couple questions seem quite in line to me with the question I sent in for Dan's pride video thing, so I guess I enjoyed hearing his thoughts about some of that stuff.

This also made me crack up:

I had to accept that a lot of the audience that have been with me over the past ten years were, unfortunately, not gay.

Like, in a more general audience sense mayyybe this is somewhat true but looking at the core fandom audience I'm like,, honey,, straight people are rare here. Not that straight fandom members don't exist, just overall this community is overwhelmingly queer in comparison to the general population lmao.

[kavat]

I feel like this move has been going on for 6 months, I can't imagine how tired and relieved they must be.

It took me a couple of months to get everything sorted in my tiny studio flat with getting everything out of boxes, realizing you've packed things you definitely should have thrown out and having furniture delivered, so I imagine they'll be in box limbo for a while more. But they're finally there!

[glitterintheair]

I won’t rest ‘till I see the kitchen… please…

[liola]

As official Moving HIll Mayor I just want to say...

WE DID IT. I can finally rest.

Now my interior design junkie would love some closeups please I'm begging