Birdie wrote:
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that video... why can't people just let it go. The video was a giant mistake, whether it's real or not and Phil has every right to not want it on the internet anymore. Especially since he never wanted it published in the first place, it got unprivated by mistake, did it not? We were never meant to see it so I'm okay with Dan and Phil lying about it (if they are lying, we don't know) for damage control. I'm kind of annoyed by people on Tumblr acting like they have any right to see it or share it or whatever. They don't. He made it, he decided to keep it private for whatever reason and now he wants it off the internet and people will have to accept that eventually. I know they won't though because they think they're entitled to know everything about them no matter what Dan and Phil want.

I do agree with you, but back in the day being contrary to their wishes was a knee-jerk reaction because when you were living in this huge drama, it was so different to now. Back then emotions were flying high, fans were losing their shit and we also had salty!Dan and lying!Phil who were deleting the past in front of our eyes. And then exploding about it when people were coming up to them with the receipts. It was a very intense time to be a fan, and people were pushing back with posting more old screenshots, more dailybooth, more content that they tried to hide
I was not one of the people tracking down old photos and screenshots, but I do remember that time and I saw everything, even if now I may forget some things, but I saw it all, personal photos, photos of his pre-Youtube friends, I witnessed lubegate happening, all that jazz. Whether we like it or not, a lot of fans view the censorship of their past as an indirect "dumbing down" of the fans from that era, as if to say "do you really think we are so fucking stupid as to believe your bullshit that you're trying to save face while you delete every shred of evidence?" all the while the customerservicedepartmentblog was high on drama and "are you literally 12 oh my god" posts. Because the thing is, it wasn't just deppy vs fans, it was also fans vs fans, and newer fans who had no idea what was happening were flinging shit at the ones with the pictures, while simultaneously also begging to see them on anon on tumblr.
What I'm trying to say, I agree with privacy. I really do. I wish I could unsee a lot of things from back then. But something that was SUCH a pivotal moment in their online history will never be erased. Someone won't care, someone will be angry, someone will be nosy, curious. It's the thing I doubt with the idea of all the Youtubers and BBC and anyone they come across covering up the relationship. I don't have enough faith in people to not blab; even Emma and Evan's gossiping didn't spill tea, they just liked pretending to know something we didn't and mock the boys for it. All talk and no action. Someone won't care. Someone will be bitter or salty. Someone may be at the bad time at the wrong place with a camera. The most they can do is stick with their excuse if it's true, or just try the best they can to stand by what they said back then and let it go because it's fake and doesn't matter anyway.
phew sorry for wall of text
EDIT: In a way I'm trying to say that a lot of fans witnessed history being rewritten in front of their eyes because while yes the boys did address the video and briefly reference old screenshots, a lot of that past was being deleted and the story being rewritten to a cleaner, more "bro" timeline that a lot of fans are familiar with nowadays, or they didn't know of the past. That's what sparked a lot of the anger and the reactionary posting of videos and photos. A lot of blogs now are just archives or are harmless, and it's good as a fan to see the past because it's dirty and messy but it also happened. Deppy managed to rewrite history to fit their angle but that's why the counterarguments exist to say "no, we don't remember it that way and neither do you"