mermaid blood wrote:why is it sound logic to assume Phil holds opinions we've seen no evidence of? the most you can do with an absence is make assumptions, and assumptions are never enough to blindly defend anyone with.
why one might think he's a decent person? deduction. he's friends with a lot of people who are pretty vocal about social issues and they all say he's a lovely person.
And what are people even defending here? Why should he even need defending? I'm just confused why it seems to not be okay to have a opinion on a movie or, as we worked out, not saying what everyone wanted to hear about it. I think it's just strange to be disappointed in Phil for not being Dan.
mermaid blood wrote:Phil deserves just as much scrutiny as Dan on social justice issues, if not more. Prattling and backtracking and getting it wrong and sometimes getting it really right at least shows a thought process, and an active preoccupation. Dan is lumped with the majority of this pressure and expectation from the fans because of the content he makes and the way he expresses himself, whilst Phil experiences the converse. That's fine, it's up to Phil what presence he has and he's autonomous in that. BUT the conversations above me show the unfair and nonsensical outcome of this: he also benefits from what DAN says, through positive projecting and protecting?
ah, no. if you don't wish to be engaged on a certain level as a social figure and media personality the most you (fairly) win is a shrug, and an ambiguous 'well i certainly HOPE he feels ___'. you don't get to have your cake and eat it too, benefitting from the actions of someone very close to you.
what kind of cake does he get to eat here though? I think it's quite the opposite, when Dan comments on some "important issue" people expect Phil to do the same and then give him shit if he fails to do so.
And Dan chooses to make the comments he makes, he likes to rant and to sometimes provoke. But Phil is just a different person, he seems to be a sucker for harmony and I sometimes get the impression he isn't overly confident in expressing himself. I for one can relate to that, very much. I guess you relate to Dan more...
mermaid blood wrote:The argument from the phandom 'this is why Phil doesn't express opinions' holds no water, there is no evidence for it. it's especially ridiculous as it doesn't seem to apply to Dan in any way, and arguably Dan shows more troubling signs of not coping with attention on his every opinion and decision than Phil ever has. It is a choice Phil makes, and Phil is an adult who is accountable to this choice like any other.
of course there's no evidence for this. We discuss a lot of things there is no evidence for. But it is my honest opinion that if I were in his shoes, if I realized that a tiny little comment I made regarding a movie I've seen would cause this kind of drama (and it was the movie comment that triggered this whole discussion), I would be even more careful of what I said in the future. Maybe that's not the reason, maybe he just doesn't want to talk about it, maybe he's a homophobic racist (:gasp: he must be if he was a little bit bored watching a movie), but where's the point?
Phil's been like this all this time, why should he change now? Even oldschool Phil wasn't a beacon of social awareness, that's just not who he is or what he wants to do on a public platform. Why do people expect a complete change of character?
And as for "it's unfair to use this argument for Phil when Dan doesn't get this privilege although he's the one who really struggles with reactions to his opinions": I call bullshit. He might say this but that doesn't mean it's true. Actions speak louder than words, why would he do it again and again if he's so troubled by it? and just because Phil doesn't speak about not wanting to give an opinion doesn't mean he has no problem with it, if that were the case he would do it more.
Sorry, this post is a mess. I'm not overly confident in expressing myself.