Daniel & Phil Part 44: This isn't a forever home

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hi
love the forum, you guys are great :platonic:

just delurking to ask people's opinions of this article: https://www.kotaku.com.au/2017/05/when- ... s-too-far/
and how it relates to deppy and their fans.

Although twitch is a different platform than YouTube, I think many of the sentiments expressed are the same. Youtubers share their lives with their audience, and some fans (imo) go too far and assume they have developed a friendship with their YouTube idol. They act as if this "friendship" entitles them to more personal information than the youtuber is willing to share, and this misguided attitude results in cases of stalking.

This paragraph in particular stood out to me:

"There's a term called "parasocial interaction," she says, which is "when a person, typically a consumer, develops a one-sided relationship with a media persona." Many people might believe that if they met, say, Jennifer Lawrence, they'd totally be BFFs, "even though they have never met her personally or even know what she is like outside of interviews.
That's existed ever since there were celebrities to moon over, but social media has evolved it to a new level, Hodgdon says. "Now consumers can interact with their celebrity BFFs, in hopes they ever get a response back. Twitch streamers, in many ways, are like celebrities. They are recognised and beloved, but it comes with a price, which unlike A-list celebrities, [they] do not have the support to handle."

A lot of these ideas have been discussed here in previous threads (and over at the place that shall not be named) but I personally have never seen a mainstream media article tackle this phenomenon, and thought it might be of interest.

sorry for any inarticulateness
(quietly relurks)

Edit: ughhh top of the page soz
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i thought about the february/march remarks throughout the day and i've been wondering: isn't it possible that they actually wanted to make a permanent move (in february), but for some reasons it unexpectedly fell through (in march)? it's pure speculation, of course, but it would fit that march was apparently much more stressful than they expected it to be (seeing how the end-of-the-year liveshows were all about resting in the new year even though they already knew they were moving) and dan having opinions on how shitty it is to buy a house in london.



or they did buy a house outside of london and are currently renovating it and in march, they discovered that the ceiling had fallen down... let me dream about deppy's new house files series.
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lowkeyloki wrote:hi
love the forum, you guys are great :platonic:

just delurking to ask people's opinions of this article: https://www.kotaku.com.au/2017/05/when- ... s-too-far/
and how it relates to deppy and their fans.

Although twitch is a different platform than YouTube, I think many of the sentiments expressed are the same. Youtubers share their lives with their audience, and some fans (imo) go too far and assume they have developed a friendship with their YouTube idol. They act as if this "friendship" entitles them to more personal information than the youtuber is willing to share, and this misguided attitude results in cases of stalking.

This paragraph in particular stood out to me:

"There's a term called "parasocial interaction," she says, which is "when a person, typically a consumer, develops a one-sided relationship with a media persona." Many people might believe that if they met, say, Jennifer Lawrence, they'd totally be BFFs, "even though they have never met her personally or even know what she is like outside of interviews.
That's existed ever since there were celebrities to moon over, but social media has evolved it to a new level, Hodgdon says. "Now consumers can interact with their celebrity BFFs, in hopes they ever get a response back. Twitch streamers, in many ways, are like celebrities. They are recognised and beloved, but it comes with a price, which unlike A-list celebrities, [they] do not have the support to handle."

A lot of these ideas have been discussed here in previous threads (and over at the place that shall not be named) but I personally have never seen a mainstream media article tackle this phenomenon, and thought it might be of interest.

sorry for any inarticulateness
(quietly relurks)

Edit: ughhh top of the page soz

m8 dw this is such a good post to be at the top

i find the whole idea of evolving celebrity culture to be incredibly interesting as an area to provide subpar analyses of. i think positive peeps (like me, at times) prefer to see the advances of youtube in creating new internet celebrities (sort of cringe using that word it seems so ostentatious and arrogant whoops) as a good thing, bringing creators and audiences closer together - as audiences feel like theyre closer to their idols or w/e

but then the harsh reality seems to be that (as much as id probs like it to be slightly better, not too weird tho) those walls still exist, and its just slightly more harrowing for the fanz who now feel closer but are not really any closer to more famous people. like even here where everyone has well articulated and diverse and genuine opinions on things, they are ultimately only based on limited, one sided interactions that dont really give as full of a picture as is often assumed.

soz if this sounded obvious or condescending it just sort of interests me quite a bit
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cherrybomb3 wrote:
lowkeyloki wrote:hi
love the forum, you guys are great :platonic:

just delurking to ask people's opinions of this article: https://www.kotaku.com.au/2017/05/when- ... s-too-far/
and how it relates to deppy and their fans.

Although twitch is a different platform than YouTube, I think many of the sentiments expressed are the same. Youtubers share their lives with their audience, and some fans (imo) go too far and assume they have developed a friendship with their YouTube idol. They act as if this "friendship" entitles them to more personal information than the youtuber is willing to share, and this misguided attitude results in cases of stalking.

This paragraph in particular stood out to me:

"There's a term called "parasocial interaction," she says, which is "when a person, typically a consumer, develops a one-sided relationship with a media persona." Many people might believe that if they met, say, Jennifer Lawrence, they'd totally be BFFs, "even though they have never met her personally or even know what she is like outside of interviews.
That's existed ever since there were celebrities to moon over, but social media has evolved it to a new level, Hodgdon says. "Now consumers can interact with their celebrity BFFs, in hopes they ever get a response back. Twitch streamers, in many ways, are like celebrities. They are recognised and beloved, but it comes with a price, which unlike A-list celebrities, [they] do not have the support to handle."

A lot of these ideas have been discussed here in previous threads (and over at the place that shall not be named) but I personally have never seen a mainstream media article tackle this phenomenon, and thought it might be of interest.

sorry for any inarticulateness
(quietly relurks)

Edit: ughhh top of the page soz

m8 dw this is such a good post to be at the top

i find the whole idea of evolving celebrity culture to be incredibly interesting as an area to provide subpar analyses of. i think positive peeps (like me, at times) prefer to see the advances of youtube in creating new internet celebrities (sort of cringe using that word it seems so ostentatious and arrogant whoops) as a good thing, bringing creators and audiences closer together - as audiences feel like theyre closer to their idols or w/e

but then the harsh reality seems to be that (as much as id probs like it to be slightly better, not too weird tho) those walls still exist, and its just slightly more harrowing for the fanz who now feel closer but are not really any closer to more famous people. like even here where everyone has well articulated and diverse and genuine opinions on things, they are ultimately only based on limited, one sided interactions that dont really give as full of a picture as is often assumed.

soz if this sounded obvious or condescending it just sort of interests me quite a bit
My two cents (because I am procrastinating from editing an essay that's due tomorrow):

Part of the "problem" (if you can call it that, it might not be a problem) is that many (not all) assume an on-screen personality is exactly what that creator is like IRL, when most of the time it's a persona that was created especially for the medium. Then that persona becomes the reality for the fan, which can be interesting (to say the least) with these one-sided interactions.

Call me jaded, but when I watch the YT I watch it like I was watching a television show: I want to laugh and see something/someone relatable. I don't assume that a hand is going to come out of the screen, grab mine, and be like, "Let's be friends!" I watch Dan and Phil because they make me laugh and Dan is relatable. That's my only expectation. I guess I don't take the YT seriously enough, or I am too old to embrace it fully.
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jesuisunèléve wrote:
cherrybomb3 wrote:
lowkeyloki wrote:hi
love the forum, you guys are great :platonic:

just delurking to ask people's opinions of this article: https://www.kotaku.com.au/2017/05/when- ... s-too-far/
and how it relates to deppy and their fans.

Although twitch is a different platform than YouTube, I think many of the sentiments expressed are the same. Youtubers share their lives with their audience, and some fans (imo) go too far and assume they have developed a friendship with their YouTube idol. They act as if this "friendship" entitles them to more personal information than the youtuber is willing to share, and this misguided attitude results in cases of stalking.

This paragraph in particular stood out to me:

"There's a term called "parasocial interaction," she says, which is "when a person, typically a consumer, develops a one-sided relationship with a media persona." Many people might believe that if they met, say, Jennifer Lawrence, they'd totally be BFFs, "even though they have never met her personally or even know what she is like outside of interviews.
That's existed ever since there were celebrities to moon over, but social media has evolved it to a new level, Hodgdon says. "Now consumers can interact with their celebrity BFFs, in hopes they ever get a response back. Twitch streamers, in many ways, are like celebrities. They are recognised and beloved, but it comes with a price, which unlike A-list celebrities, [they] do not have the support to handle."

A lot of these ideas have been discussed here in previous threads (and over at the place that shall not be named) but I personally have never seen a mainstream media article tackle this phenomenon, and thought it might be of interest.

sorry for any inarticulateness
(quietly relurks)

Edit: ughhh top of the page soz

m8 dw this is such a good post to be at the top

i find the whole idea of evolving celebrity culture to be incredibly interesting as an area to provide subpar analyses of. i think positive peeps (like me, at times) prefer to see the advances of youtube in creating new internet celebrities (sort of cringe using that word it seems so ostentatious and arrogant whoops) as a good thing, bringing creators and audiences closer together - as audiences feel like theyre closer to their idols or w/e

but then the harsh reality seems to be that (as much as id probs like it to be slightly better, not too weird tho) those walls still exist, and its just slightly more harrowing for the fanz who now feel closer but are not really any closer to more famous people. like even here where everyone has well articulated and diverse and genuine opinions on things, they are ultimately only based on limited, one sided interactions that dont really give as full of a picture as is often assumed.

soz if this sounded obvious or condescending it just sort of interests me quite a bit
My two cents (because I am procrastinating from editing an essay that's due tomorrow):

Part of the "problem" (if you can call it that, it might not be a problem) is that many (not all) assume an on-screen personality is exactly what that creator is like IRL, when most of the time it's a persona that was created especially for the medium. Then that persona becomes the reality for the fan, which can be interesting (to say the least) with these one-sided interactions.

Call me jaded, but when I watch the YT I watch it like I was watching a television show: I want to laugh and see something/someone relatable. I don't assume that a hand is going to come out of the screen, grab mine, and be like, "Let's be friends!" I watch Dan and Phil because they make me laugh and Dan is relatable. That's my only expectation. I guess I don't take the YT seriously enough, or I am too old to embrace it fully. This could be why I cringe at the thought of meet ups or cons or stalking Dip & Dot at the airport.
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jesuisunèléve wrote: My two cents (because I am procrastinating from editing an essay that's due tomorrow):

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lurker wrote: or they did buy a house outside of london and are currently renovating it and in march, they discovered that the ceiling had fallen down... let me dream about deppy's new house files series.
Don't be so flippant about it lurker, that ceiling fell on Phil's wife. She's dead now. So I think a little more respect is in order here. smh.

(Looking forward to reading that article lowkeyloki thanks for sharing it )
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wow, i just typed out a long reply to that and it got deleted, fml.

thank you lowkeyloki for linking to the article, it was defitely an interesting read. now i personally hadn't heard about twitch before, but in general i would suspect that for a streamer the audience-creator relationship is at a much blurrier line than for a youtuber. i think we can see that by comparing the pov of someone who only watches deppy's videos to that of someone who does what most ppl on here do (watching videos, ls, following on social media, speculating about their private lives, see my post above that is now weirdly misplaced, i'm sorry). we don't know much about deppy's day-to-day live, as opposed to someone who watches their favourite streamer several hours a day. deppy's audience is also not so much on a "first name basis" as it seems on twitch. they do remember the names of their top fans, but not above a level of saying "welcome back" or things like acknowledging anahita (?) at a m&g. they don't engage with their audience in terms of talking specific topics with specific people, in "oh hi george, how was the math exam you mentioned last week?" terms.

nevertheless i do think there are similarities/connections. the paragraph quoted by lowkeyloki in their original post is particularly interesting, as imo it ties back closely to the "#relatability" of deppy. i think it's fairly common for us as their audience to relate to certain aspects of their personalities, or to think that it'd be interesting to meet them and talk about be it whatever topic (aka not in a framework that wasn't "hi i paid money to see you, can we take a photo"). it also happens quite regularly (?) that fans feel "entitled" to post certain things as a sort of insider joke because they feel that they have a special connection to deppy -- the cc informative group chats come to mind, or the video filmed at the airport, or the people supposedly meeting up with their manager (?) as recent examples. (i don't mean that as a "call-out" of these fans specifically.) like, if a fanbase is built on relating to the creators, there's possibly a certain...predisposition that a viewer might expect the relatability to work two ways, and to put a lot of meaning into something like getting a message answered, or running into them, maybe thinking that there is a connection that does not exist. i think there is still a distinct line to what was described in the article, but to me it feels like these phenomena might stem from the same place.

i'll need to think about that again, but for now, i'm looking forward to reading the other replies.

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fancybum wrote:or they did buy a house outside of london and are currently renovating it and in march, they discovered that the ceiling had fallen down... let me dream about deppy's new house files series.
Don't be so flippant about it lurker, that ceiling fell on Phil's wife. She's dead now. So I think a little more respect is in order here. smh.
maybe the house is haunted now though and phil can finally make his directing debut in a horror movie. pharanormal activity.
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jesuisunèléve wrote:
cherrybomb3 wrote:
lowkeyloki wrote:hi
love the forum, you guys are great :platonic:

just delurking to ask people's opinions of this article: https://www.kotaku.com.au/2017/05/when- ... s-too-far/
and how it relates to deppy and their fans.

Although twitch is a different platform than YouTube, I think many of the sentiments expressed are the same. Youtubers share their lives with their audience, and some fans (imo) go too far and assume they have developed a friendship with their YouTube idol. They act as if this "friendship" entitles them to more personal information than the youtuber is willing to share, and this misguided attitude results in cases of stalking.

This paragraph in particular stood out to me:

"There's a term called "parasocial interaction," she says, which is "when a person, typically a consumer, develops a one-sided relationship with a media persona." Many people might believe that if they met, say, Jennifer Lawrence, they'd totally be BFFs, "even though they have never met her personally or even know what she is like outside of interviews.
That's existed ever since there were celebrities to moon over, but social media has evolved it to a new level, Hodgdon says. "Now consumers can interact with their celebrity BFFs, in hopes they ever get a response back. Twitch streamers, in many ways, are like celebrities. They are recognised and beloved, but it comes with a price, which unlike A-list celebrities, [they] do not have the support to handle."

A lot of these ideas have been discussed here in previous threads (and over at the place that shall not be named) but I personally have never seen a mainstream media article tackle this phenomenon, and thought it might be of interest.

sorry for any inarticulateness
(quietly relurks)

Edit: ughhh top of the page soz

m8 dw this is such a good post to be at the top

i find the whole idea of evolving celebrity culture to be incredibly interesting as an area to provide subpar analyses of. i think positive peeps (like me, at times) prefer to see the advances of youtube in creating new internet celebrities (sort of cringe using that word it seems so ostentatious and arrogant whoops) as a good thing, bringing creators and audiences closer together - as audiences feel like theyre closer to their idols or w/e

but then the harsh reality seems to be that (as much as id probs like it to be slightly better, not too weird tho) those walls still exist, and its just slightly more harrowing for the fanz who now feel closer but are not really any closer to more famous people. like even here where everyone has well articulated and diverse and genuine opinions on things, they are ultimately only based on limited, one sided interactions that dont really give as full of a picture as is often assumed.

soz if this sounded obvious or condescending it just sort of interests me quite a bit
My two cents (because I am procrastinating from editing an essay that's due tomorrow):

Part of the "problem" (if you can call it that, it might not be a problem) is that many (not all) assume an on-screen personality is exactly what that creator is like IRL, when most of the time it's a persona that was created especially for the medium. Then that persona becomes the reality for the fan, which can be interesting (to say the least) with these one-sided interactions.

Call me jaded, but when I watch the YT I watch it like I was watching a television show: I want to laugh and see something/someone relatable. I don't assume that a hand is going to come out of the screen, grab mine, and be like, "Let's be friends!" I watch Dan and Phil because they make me laugh and Dan is relatable. That's my only expectation. I guess I don't take the YT seriously enough, or I am too old to embrace it fully.
Don't be sorry, this is an awesome thing to be top of the page!

The article is really interesting. Just to pull some quotes that got my interest:

"The expectation that everyone who ever made it on the internet's gotta be constantly connected to their fans all the time 24 hours a day... is insane."

"As her channel took off, fans demanded more access to her personal life." "Years later, she still hasn't opened up to fans about most personal matters."


It's weird, because these people online who have massive followings, on twitch, youtube, which ever social media account, are 'celebrities'. But it's hard to remember that sometimes when the creators are interacting with the audience, they feel like a friend. For example, if you get re-tweeted or Dan reads out a premium message, it's going to encourage you to interact with them more, in the hopes that they will remember you/interact with you more. It's trying to break that wall down between the creator and the audience, which most of the time doesn't happen. In reality, they are at their homes, we are at ours, we are watching them talk/live stream/play games.

The hard part I think for a lot of people, especially younger people, is realising that the creators aren't actually a friend, they are strangers. But, you feel like they are a friend, because they interact with you, share their lives with you, share everything they do. And we, us, the consumers, take all of that information and combined with the constant interaction and updates, it feels like they are a friend. I feel like there is a sense of entitlement from some of the audience though, especially deppys, they want more information, more interaction, more updates.

But, we don't know them at all. Not really, and we probably never will, because there is a barrier there. And there has to be, because even though they have a following, are 'famous', and provide us with content, we are not entitled to know everything. There is a limit to what these creators share with the internet, we are strangers to them as much as they are to us. And they are not exactly who they display themselves as on the internet, they are edited down, calculated people and moments in videos and selfies with filters on social media. It is all 2D, really.

It's like, deppy have 'personas', and are not everything they say they are online. They are much more than that, but it doesn't get shown, because there is a limit and there is privacy that they are absolutely allowed to have, which can be hard for some people who absolutely love them, watch their videos day in day out and feel like they have a connection with them.

(Sorry, probably didn't make much sense but there we go. )
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coffeepenguin wrote: But it is also obvious to me that he has a broad understanding of his audience, broader than some members of the phandom have, because he reads the youtube comments under his videos (I'm so sorry for him, honestly, I know it's his job and he must be desensitised now, but people are awful) and he sees the reactions of different fractions of his audience on different social media, not just of the most committed part of the phandom (but it's also true that those committed fans are the ones who are responsible for his financial stability because they're the ones who buy merch, coincidentally they are most likely to be teenage girls, doesn't matter if we're talking about his audience in general).
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Stark contrast from how people on tumblr perceive the same remark.
I was thinking about this for a while. I think Dan's statement is both, actually.
He is being both inclusive and also using humour as part of the joke. He acknowledges non-binary people, while also avoiding pandering towards that specific audience. Maybe I'm just a cynic, but whenever a YouTuber starts using gender-neutral language, even when they don't NEED to, it comes across as them seeking validation. I felt that Dan's statement is both inclusive, and also making a joke. Nobody thinks of genitalia as "flaps" and it kind of renders everybody as all the same. It's vulgar, and nearly condescending. Instead of Dan making clear divisions between people, he makes everyone the same. This one youtube comment doesn't really know Dan, and made an assumption based on his fans being from Tumblr, and Tumblr being well, the opposite of where this guy is probably from with his edgy Pepe profile. When this posted sees this comment, he doesn't understand Dan's humour, and believes him to be condescending and taking the piss out of his audience. However, anybody who knows Dan, and his true personality, knows that Dan is mindful of his audience and is educated about these things, and rather than simply being fake and pandering he instead just turns it on its head and basically just called everyone flaps. Idk about you, but I think that's beautiful.
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Totally off topic, but I saw this and need to know-
Which came first:
Or:
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Because if they came onto IDB and saw their smiley and decided they needed to print it out, put it on a stick, and use it to decorate their plant pot, I may die.

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Ashling Rae wrote:Totally off topic, but I saw this and need to know-
Which came first:
Or:
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Because if they came onto IDB and saw their smiley and decided they needed to print it out, put it on a stick, and use it to decorate their plant pot, I may die.

This is what I get for being new here.

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'Calm your flaps' is basically a cruder version of 'calm your tits'. Lol I have a friend who uses it all the time. I suspect Dan qualified them as 'non gender specific' because not all of his fans are female.

I don't really see what's wrong with Dan maybe wanting some male followers (he is male himself after all). Spend any amount of time reading the YouTube comments (and Tumblr) and it's not surprising that he might want some fans who are just there for his content and jokes and not there just to spam Phan is Real in the comments (and in the comments of everyone else's videos too).
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cherrybomb3 wrote:
Ashling Rae wrote:Totally off topic, but I saw this and need to know-
Which came first:
Or:
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Because if they came onto IDB and saw their smiley and decided they needed to print it out, put it on a stick, and use it to decorate their plant pot, I may die.

This is what I get for being new here.

brit awards emoji soz homeslizzle
I had a feeling a third party was involved, but had no clue where to look. :facepalm:
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what a great article, lowkeyloki! also pretty scary what lengths people go to, especially the poor anthony kid. i'm glad the streamer was careful but helped him out anyway, or that could've been a really sad story.

i feel like i have sort of a unique take on this, from how people have reacted when i've said this before. i like the fact that it's a one sided thing. it's safe, i don't have to talk about myself or comfort anyone confiding in me. human interaction is nice, but it often exhausts me (pretty sure i have social anxiety) and youtube/idols in general are a decent supplement to this for me.

don't get me wrong, i get the longing and the ache about really wishing you knew them, because you feel you would get along and they would understand. but i really appreciate what they give us; an outlet to relate to someone, without having anything expected of you. i know the point in the article is fans who are the opposite extreme, but it made me wonder if anyone else felt like i did as well?

i know i don't know them, personally, but i do know what they let us. that's still knowing, to an extent, the article described it as "2D" and i like that a lot. you see things, get a flat image, just not the full picture. the familiarity is what matters to me. they're different images, the 2D and the 3D, but i don't mind only getting to see the simplified image. the 3D would probably make me nauseous anyway (as 3D movies do), because then i would be part of the equation myself.

that's what i like about the internet in general, actually! the anonymity and the "wall" makes it a lot easier to express myself and have an outlet. i've made lots of friends who i talk to regularly, but being able to turn off the device and breathe for a while, to unplug, is an important part to me. having consistent "interaction" with my idols (from seeing whatever content they put out; i don't even try tweeting people, and everyone thinks i'm crazy for not wanting to meet anyone) brightens my day and gives me something to look forward to, without having to drain my battery with actual human interaction.

that was a novel! i know it wasn't really what the article was getting at, but it's kind of related and i've always wondered just how weird it is that i feel the way i do.
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Ashling Rae wrote:
cherrybomb3 wrote:
Ashling Rae wrote:Totally off topic, but I saw this and need to know-
Which came first:
Or:
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Because if they came onto IDB and saw their smiley and decided they needed to print it out, put it on a stick, and use it to decorate their plant pot, I may die.

This is what I get for being new here.

brit awards emoji soz homeslizzle
I had a feeling a third party was involved, but had no clue where to look. :facepalm:
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llion wrote:i like the fact that it's a one sided thing. it's safe, i don't have to talk about myself or comfort anyone confiding in me. human interaction is nice, but it often exhausts me (pretty sure i have social anxiety) and youtube/idols in general are a decent supplement to this for me.
Yes to all of this! I'm very happy in this one-sided relationship we have. I don't have to be interesting or worry about what to say to show I'm paying attention (or cover that I'm not). I get to enjoy living vicariously through people who are fun and interesting with more entertaining lives than mine, with no commitment or requirements or judgement. It's the closest I can get to my dream of not existing at all.

But there's a huge difference in "I want D/P to notice me!" and "I'm going to stalk D/P because I truly think we'd instantly be BFFs!" I've got nothing against people who just want a tweet reply or a tumblr reblog or a liveshow shoutout, that's fun and exciting. But it's definitely important to keep perspective that we're each a speck in the whirlwind of phandom, which is harder when you're young, or like the article leans toward, dealing with other personal issues.
That's my socializing quota for the month up.
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Susanisnotafish wrote:I really relate to this llion! That is all.
eyyy it's not just me! :D
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llion wrote:i like the fact that it's a one sided thing. it's safe, i don't have to talk about myself or comfort anyone confiding in me. human interaction is nice, but it often exhausts me (pretty sure i have social anxiety) and youtube/idols in general are a decent supplement to this for me.
Yes to all of this! I'm very happy in this one-sided relationship we have. I don't have to be interesting or worry about what to say to show I'm paying attention (or cover that I'm not). I get to enjoy living vicariously through people who are fun and interesting with more entertaining lives than mine, with no commitment or requirements or judgement. It's the closest I can get to my dream of not existing at all.

But there's a huge difference in "I want D/P to notice me!" and "I'm going to stalk D/P because I truly think we'd instantly be BFFs!" I've got nothing against people who just want a tweet reply or a tumblr reblog or a liveshow shoutout, that's fun and exciting. But it's definitely important to keep perspective that we're each a speck in the whirlwind of phandom, which is harder when you're young, or like the article leans toward, dealing with other personal issues.
yes of course! i agree it's totally okay and normal to want to be noticed, as long as it doesn't cross the stalker line. i understand the draw completely. it's definitely an expectations vs reality thing for me, and i'm just perfectly happy floating in my bubble unnoticed haha.
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This thread is so dead right now.

I'm really disappointed there wasn't a video today. Aren't they going to Playlist Live? so close yet so far I guess that could be why.
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I think they'll probs post a gaming vid tomorrow unless phil does a ls from Florida.
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I'm disappointed that they didn't go to Creator Summit in New York. They seemed to enjoy it (I guess?) the last couple times, and it wouldn't have been too difficult to piggyback the NYC and Orlando trips if they wanted. And yet.... radio silence from them today so I'm pretty sure they aren't in NYC.

I'm also thinking that a gaming video tomorrow is a safe bet. I think they'll try to at least stick to the Tue/Thur schedule if they're skipping a few more liveshows.
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Definitely agree llion. I'm very content just being a voyeur

I wanted to write a lengthier post about Dan's interesting comments on storage, so much storage, an unbelievable amount of storage? Are the other seven floors of your apartment all storage? I didn't have time to find, rewatch and properly quote that part. Maybe tomorrow.

However I did want to share that I bought TABINOF today! The husband I went out to lunch and Barnes & Noble for our anniversary. I just wanted to look at (hold) the two books. He came and found me reading it in the aisle and asked if I was getting it. I asked, "Can I?" and he said, "If you want, and if it will help you move on with our day." After that I just squeezed it close to my chest as we walked around the store like

When my son got home, he noticed it on the table and immediately put his face on it and started stroking it. So umm that's what we've started reading for a bedtime story. (At the beginning he wanted to read the Phil lines and me the Dan lines, but his voice got tired. I am if course skipping some parts with him).

Fingers crossed for Sims tomorrow.

I'll end this with a quote that I was able to jot down. I know others have mentioned it, but I just love it. Concerning the Yuri On Ice song:

"That's actually a super emotional song though, just in- it really makes me feel- it's like soaring, through clouds, it's a song that makes me feel like anything is possible, it's very emotionally tender, but it makes you just think like I'm in an inspired place right now and I can do whatever I feel like."

Yes, keep learning that song Daniel, be inspired.
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Love the pretentious white piano. Looks lovely. I love that Daniel grace us with one of his piano playing It has been forever. People comments that he plays some Yuri On Ice theme, which I of course, hadn't watch yet (and probably never will during this time where everyone is crazy about it because I don't want a backlash in case I don't like it) As a person who knows nothing about piano playing, that sounds lovely and the hand jumping he did looks like what a level 8 in piano lessons, but as I already say, I don't know anything about piano playing whatsoever.
Hi- just quickly saying that I am not in anyway bashing or insulting you or Dan- I understnad why u would think this but here is the truth about Dans piano playing. I have been playing Flute for 6 years and Piano for 3-4. I am in high school in marching band and symphonic band and have given solo performances on piano for level 7 pieces. Dans "hand jumping" is called "chord progressions" or "crossovers". It is a skill that impressed me the first time when I saw my piano teacher pakyjng it too- when I was in level 2. Then she taught me how to play it and I was like "oh... that's literally three notes u play over and overnight again... that's so easy..." and I mastered it within 20 minutes. This is the same for every pianist- to the point where me and my friends always play really simple pieces based entirely on chord progression to impress non pianists. It's kinda a joke between us on how hard everyone thinks chord progressions are (not a mean joke- just a joke we're band kids and music is our life). I searched up the YOI sheet music after Dan played it and sugntread a bit of it instantly- chord progression or "hand jumping" is level one or two- not level 8. If u want to see Modern Music level 7-8 search up "Hediwgs Theme by John Williams ARRANGED BY JARROD REICHNOCH" (the arranger is v important) I have played an excerpt from that piece and it is KILLER. My piano teacher who has a degree even admitted that she struggled a bit with it. Look at the guys hands in the Reichnoch version and then look at Dans hands. I Am not saying dan is bad- dan is a good piano player an his playing is lovely- but when I heard the YOI I thought "what a simplistic, beautiful piece- it would be a great warm up piece for me- and he plays it beautifully" and yes I had criticisms which I am not going to list because as long as Dan plays and loves the piano he is a good player. All I am sayinf is that it's not fair to think of someone as more than they are in some conditions, Dan is aware of how good he is ar the piano, when Dan says he is average or below average compared to most pianists, he is right. I'm sorry to those who thought otherwise- but any pianist who has been playing at a level 6+ will tell u the same thing. Most average pianists are at a level 6 in ABRSM. Judging by Dans pieces that I have heard (ingenue,Bethovens moonlight sonata, FF, YOI, Für Elise) he is a level 6 at most who prefers to play at level 3. (He could be a secret level 8- I would not know I Ann judging on what I have heard) And yes before I am attaked I have played Fur Elise and I knew about the ingenue before I knew who Dan was and I have played it too. I Have played YOI (like two days ago lol) and I am currently playing a sonatina by Bethoven. (Sonatina in F). Also no, I am not judging Dan, I do not think that I am superior to him, and I do not think he plays horribly. He is passionate and loves music and that is what makes him an amazing musician. He also was born with perfect pitch... lucky duck lol. But this is the truth- I have seen pianisnts in the phandom who are annoyed when people gush over Dans playing- and while I am not at all annoyed for u thinking ur idol is the best (I understnad that) I also think it's important to get a truth bomb thrown in ur face once in a while and this is the truth. "Hand jumping" is level 2 which children learn to develop coordination- - NOT level 8 not even close. Level 8 is playing so fast ur fingers turn red and begin to hurt like hell. YOI is a very simple piece. Dan does not know how to read music- he has perfect pitch (which is something u are born with) and he plays by ear. He makes mistakes when he plays and he still plays beautfiully. He plays with passion and reverence and I like listening to him play. But give credit where credit is due- not where it is not due. There is nothing wrong with complimenting him and saying he is the best ever as that is ur opinion but I want to clarify which level he really is at. But u r entitled to ur opinions and i am not going to argue with u- I am not angry at u or bashing u as I know u have said u have zero experience in piano- well now u have a little more and I hope u enjoy reading this. Ask me if u have any questions about piano- while I probs won't write about Dan and Phil as I just like reading about them I will write about music as that is my passion. Thanks- sorry if ur offended I did not mean to offend.
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autumnhearth wrote: I'll end this with a quote that I was able to jot down. I know others have mentioned it, but I just love it. Concerning the Yuri On Ice song:

"That's actually a super emotional song though, just in- it really makes me feel- it's like soaring, through clouds, it's a song that makes me feel like anything is possible, it's very emotionally tender, but it makes you just think like I'm in an inspired place right now and I can do whatever I feel like."

Yes, keep learning that song Daniel, be inspired.
that was my favorite part!! he sounded so passionate about it, i love it when he talks about things he genuinely likes and how they make him feel. it's a great thing.

i love it that you read it with your son, that's so precious! i would just put my face on it too bud. i also have yet to get the book but i still eye it in stores. pat it gently. my mom is starting to ask how they're doing now, thanks to my already incessant updates, so it could be in my future.
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