I agree but I also feel that people go way too far. They don't have to point every single instance or show examples (gifs, vid clips) on every single thing that Dan & Phil post.Amiaw wrote: ↑Sat Dec 16, 2017 1:37 amI agree that people can take the shipping too far and let it color their perception of everything dan and phil do however they have admitted that they will say things or drop hints to steer the phandom a certain way so I don’t think they are completely innocent bystanders in this.Sinister Shipper wrote: ↑Sat Dec 16, 2017 1:23 am I adore them!! Very cute video!!
I hate that everyone points out all the innuendos & stuff in their videos. Every single video someone points out something that was said or the touchy feely moments or love eyes or whatever & makes a bigger deal out of it than should be. Why can't phans just watch a video for what it is instead of analysing everything that is said or done & making it about their sexuality or how comfortable they are getting in front of the camera so they are more affectionate or not discouraging comments by acting the way they do. Who cares?? Enjoy the content they make, enjoy them making jokes & being silly but stop making everything about them being gay & slowly getting the phans adjusted to the idea of them being together or hinting or making indirect comments that are taken out of proportion & made to be a bigger thing than is necessary.
Tonight's video especially, everyone pointing out the obvious, who cares, just let them be, let them say what they want, do/act how they want & not pick every single thing apart.
Their videos/tweets/Instagram/Tumblr post shouldn't always be reduced to them "alluding" to anything other than the content that they want to put out but everyone makes everything about them being a couple & that's gotta be pretty tiring. They are grown ass adults, they have adult senses of humor, they have curious minds about different subcultures. Their videos & they themselves are more than what everyone takes them for.
It makes me sad that a majority of the comments about this video (not just on here but YouTube & Twitter as well) are going to point out all the gay agenda mentions & rainbows & they are going to be made into Dan & Phil indirectly associating it to themselves but in a round about way.
I personally believe they are together but I would never go crazy & point out every single thing in every single video. Maybe bcuz I feel that phans ruined things for Dan & Phil in the beginning by making comments/accusations/hardcore shipping that they don't deserve to be continuously talked about in such a manner or their videos analyzed in such a way. They deserve to be able to put content out there that doesn't cause speculation of a hidden agenda or message.
Enjoy them & their videos/pictures/posts for exactly what they are, not what you assume them to be!!!
The phandom in general needs to grow up & let things lie as they may & if/when they decide to make things public, I 100% expect so many to say "we knew it" "I told you so" blah blah blah bcuz that's how this phandom is. God forbid the phandom let Dan & Phil have one thing that isn't tainted & made less of or more of a big deal by their maniacal fans.
I am not in any way shape or form pointing a finger at anyone personally here or anywhere else for that matter, only stating the very obnoxiously obvious truth about the majority of this phandom. Put yourselves in their shoes, how sick & tired would you be if for the past 8 years everything you said or done was picked apart by millions of people who think they know you but have no clue & make very public their opinions about your personal life. I'd find it quite hard to want to do anything bcuz of how those people tear it apart. Getting butthurt bcuz they didn't do a DITL video this year but omg they've done one every year for the most part, cry cry cry! It's about what they want to do & shouldn't be about what others expect them to do. They started YouTube bcuz they wanted to do what they wanted to do but the phandom put them in a corner by spamming their comment sections with expectations & it got to the point where Dan said enough, I'm getting back to doing what I want to do & I'm rebranding bcuz those people ruined the image I had put out there. Everyone says they love DnP but I think this phandom is very disrespectful, demanding & in some cases delusional. When's it going to change? Continuously calling a 26 year old a rat even tho he wants to get away from that brand is going against his wishes but he plays it off bcuz he's too much of a sweetheart to say anything. Treating an almost 31 year old as an "innocent bean" is ridiculous bcuz he's obviously only showing his online persona to the world - he's a 30 year old man that is far from innocent so when he swears or says a crude joke, the world can't take it. This is not how they should be forced to act bcuz everything is taken out of context.
People need to stop projecting their thoughts, opinions & feelings on Dan & Phil's content in every form of social media & just allow them to freely say & do as they please without making it about something you think it's about.
Rant over - bring on the backlash cuz I'm sure it's coming!!!
At the end of the day, as long as people aren’t crossing any lines, I don’t see why we need to police how people feel about dan and phil or how they choose to express it.
I also agree that Dan & Phil aren't completely innocent but I also think they deserve more respect when it comes to comments, theories & posts than what they get.