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Dan & Phil Part 56: Phanthony! at the Disco
Suspicious things:
He didn't tweet the liveshow.
Someone sent a superchat asking about "the 7 days in the third month" that he didn't answer.(that user could just be trying to be funny or maybe he blacklisted "that week in march"?)
He didn't tweet the liveshow.
Someone sent a superchat asking about "the 7 days in the third month" that he didn't answer.(that user could just be trying to be funny or maybe he blacklisted "that week in march"?)
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unrelated to dan's ls, but i just got an email about phil's video
great job, youtube
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I didn't see anyone saying "that week in march" which I found strange. Maybe he did blacklist it?malday wrote: Tue Oct 03, 2017 9:22 pm Suspicious things: he didn't tweet the liveshow. Someone sent a superchat asking about "the 7 days in the third month" that he didn't answer.(that user could just be trying to be funny or maybe he blacklisted "that week in march"?)
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That was a nice live show, even though I did zone out a couple of times.
Dan was driving me crazy because he kept answering unrelated questions in the middle of his story.
Also I’m hoping he is not going to do a viewers pick my outfit vid.
The Phil being ‘attacked’ by a Dubai vlogger story
I enjoy it when Dan shades people.
Some talk about interacting with fans and naming places they couldn’t go with tatinof, very interesting.
Dan is not writing a book confirmed.
But he is busy with things. Always.
No talk about that week in March, I’m definitely unstanning.
Dan was driving me crazy because he kept answering unrelated questions in the middle of his story.
Also I’m hoping he is not going to do a viewers pick my outfit vid.
The Phil being ‘attacked’ by a Dubai vlogger story
Some talk about interacting with fans and naming places they couldn’t go with tatinof, very interesting.
Dan is not writing a book confirmed.
But he is busy with things. Always.
No talk about that week in March, I’m definitely unstanning.
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Yeah, Dan apparently opted out of talking about the week in March.
And I already call it that he won't do a liveshow next week at all which makes me extra curious to see if Phil streams Thursday. Also, another 45 minute liveshow? I feel like this is the new normal for Dan, he hasn't done an hour long one in two months.
Okay, editing to add - wow, Dan, nice straighteners on the floor there.

Okay, editing to add - wow, Dan, nice straighteners on the floor there.

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IDK, somehow this makes me really sad. Both in the way that I fear that we are too much of a nuisance so he thinks this step is neccessary, but also that he literally bans something he has mentioned twice as something he might talk about, and then taking away our option to ask about it. What would lead him to not even just haru-ing it, but straight out banning the words and deleting comments that cost people money? I guess I am sad he's uncomfortable with it. IDK, going to bed nowalittledizzy wrote: Tue Oct 03, 2017 9:30 pm Yeah, Dan apparently opted out of talking about the week in March.
And I already call it that he won't do a liveshow next week at all which makes me extra curious to see if Phil streams Thursday. Also, another 45 minute liveshow? I feel like this is the new normal for Dan, he hasn't done an hour long one in two months.
(Please forgive my ignorance, but what currency was that superchat & how much is 200 of it?)
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Am I the only one now who doesn’t think he will talk about the March thing? Tbh I’m over it now anyways, I didn’t even realise it was a thing for this liveshow. I assume, as usual, if we all stop asking for it he’ll just tell us they story at some point.
Tonight he seemed serious, kinda jumpy, kinda chatty, spoke really fast, kinda soft and I loved it. I just love a kinda stripped back version of Dan where he seems to just be happy to talk about different things instead of the usual same old chat.
I am 100% with him saying people celebrate occasions too soon, I mean just because it’s October doesn’t mean it’s Halloween, that’s 3 weeks away (it’s like how all the shops have their frigging Christmas paper and cards out now, wtf). I really hope he doesn’t change his name yet, wait for week of Halloween please.
I also found it interesting how he’s only just thinking that it’s been almost 2 years since they did anything with the UK fans in terms of m&gs. He seemed quite keen to talk about that and how they enjoyed tatinof and meeting people. It made me think there might be something in the pipeline? That other UK convention is coming up soon (Hello World) and I did wonder if they had been asked/would attend. The way he was talking tonight, it wouldn’t surprise me if they did although kinda hope they don’t and they do something on their own; even if it’s like a q&a with them and a m&g attached to it. I really can’t believe it’s been 2 years since tatinof uk! Time has gone by so fast.
Also, glad you also agreed Dan that the beanie outfit combo looked good on Phil! I’m still not over how good he looked in that outfit. Even wanking!dan had to take a sidestep on the avatar front for emo!phil.
Tonight he seemed serious, kinda jumpy, kinda chatty, spoke really fast, kinda soft and I loved it. I just love a kinda stripped back version of Dan where he seems to just be happy to talk about different things instead of the usual same old chat.
I am 100% with him saying people celebrate occasions too soon, I mean just because it’s October doesn’t mean it’s Halloween, that’s 3 weeks away (it’s like how all the shops have their frigging Christmas paper and cards out now, wtf). I really hope he doesn’t change his name yet, wait for week of Halloween please.
I also found it interesting how he’s only just thinking that it’s been almost 2 years since they did anything with the UK fans in terms of m&gs. He seemed quite keen to talk about that and how they enjoyed tatinof and meeting people. It made me think there might be something in the pipeline? That other UK convention is coming up soon (Hello World) and I did wonder if they had been asked/would attend. The way he was talking tonight, it wouldn’t surprise me if they did although kinda hope they don’t and they do something on their own; even if it’s like a q&a with them and a m&g attached to it. I really can’t believe it’s been 2 years since tatinof uk! Time has gone by so fast.
Also, glad you also agreed Dan that the beanie outfit combo looked good on Phil! I’m still not over how good he looked in that outfit. Even wanking!dan had to take a sidestep on the avatar front for emo!phil.
First of all, October is his favorite month
I can't believe he didn't talk about that, even though it felt like he was prompting it with the whole "What do you guys want to talk about" at the end. I think it's definitely A Thing™. I hope he isn't actually blacklisting it because he was the one to say to ask him about it, he should know better. He actively told us to remind him. I'm just hoping he's waiting for the right moment
He said Phil's name so many times I lost count, that should be a nice tally. He loved the beanie look didn't he? He's into the skater look.
Omg dizzy nice spot with the hair straightener! I noticed how he panned sooo quickly about "my mirror and my shoes" so obviously showing off Phil's mirror and absolutely ignoring it. Is he even trying anymore?
I do wonder why he didn't tweet the liveshow, he was already late he could've done even if he was busy moving room. Also he didn't watch bake off last week so I'm assuming he didn't watch this week's either? I'm suspicious. Something is definitely going on
I can't believe he didn't talk about that, even though it felt like he was prompting it with the whole "What do you guys want to talk about" at the end. I think it's definitely A Thing™. I hope he isn't actually blacklisting it because he was the one to say to ask him about it, he should know better. He actively told us to remind him. I'm just hoping he's waiting for the right moment
He said Phil's name so many times I lost count, that should be a nice tally. He loved the beanie look didn't he? He's into the skater look.
Omg dizzy nice spot with the hair straightener! I noticed how he panned sooo quickly about "my mirror and my shoes" so obviously showing off Phil's mirror and absolutely ignoring it. Is he even trying anymore?
I do wonder why he didn't tweet the liveshow, he was already late he could've done even if he was busy moving room. Also he didn't watch bake off last week so I'm assuming he didn't watch this week's either? I'm suspicious. Something is definitely going on
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What I find strange is that he flat out deleted/blacklisted the comments instead of just ignoring them. This is so confusing. He said that he would talk about it, so why is he acting so closed off all of a sudden?
It also sounds like he's gonna start working on that mental health video. I wonder what it could even possibly be.
It also sounds like he's gonna start working on that mental health video. I wonder what it could even possibly be.
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That was a nice and very calm (but a bit weird) liveshow!
just some stuff on the top of my head :
-loved all the phil mentions and talk about his video (phil now being addicted to doctor foster aw
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- the week in march thing is getting suspicious...(or maybe i just like conspiracy theories too much)
talking about theories, here is the inevitable room screenshoot and is that a straightener on the floor ?
(also if those are just his own shoes how many does he have wtf)
(i actually don't know how to post a picture oops but it's at 5:01 in the livestream)
- dan keeps talking about how they're sad they couldn't come to russia and new zealand (but mostly russia) and how they really want to ??
- mentioning asap science aw!
- i also really hope he won't do a clothes for dan video
- baking video confirmed yay !
(I didn't manage to post when Phil's video came out but I loved it
and I'm surprised (and disappointed) it didn't do better view wise
just some stuff on the top of my head :
-loved all the phil mentions and talk about his video (phil now being addicted to doctor foster aw
- the week in march thing is getting suspicious...(or maybe i just like conspiracy theories too much)
talking about theories, here is the inevitable room screenshoot and is that a straightener on the floor ?
(i actually don't know how to post a picture oops but it's at 5:01 in the livestream)
- dan keeps talking about how they're sad they couldn't come to russia and new zealand (but mostly russia) and how they really want to ??
- mentioning asap science aw!
- i also really hope he won't do a clothes for dan video
- baking video confirmed yay !
(I didn't manage to post when Phil's video came out but I loved it
I think the message actually expired (they have a limited time in which they are visible), he didn't delete it (i'm not sure you even can, that would be unfair to people spending money).LtrllySusan wrote: Tue Oct 03, 2017 9:38 pmIDK, somehow this makes me really sad. Both in the way that I fear that we are too much of a nuisance so he thinks this step is neccessary, but also that he literally bans something he has mentioned twice as something he might talk about, and then taking away our option to ask about it. What would lead him to not even just haru-ing it, but straight out banning the words and deleting comments that cost people money? I guess I am sad he's uncomfortable with it. IDK, going to bed nowalittledizzy wrote: Tue Oct 03, 2017 9:30 pm Yeah, Dan apparently opted out of talking about the week in March.
And I already call it that he won't do a liveshow next week at all which makes me extra curious to see if Phil streams Thursday. Also, another 45 minute liveshow? I feel like this is the new normal for Dan, he hasn't done an hour long one in two months.
(Please forgive my ignorance, but what currency was that superchat & how much is 200 of it?)
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Yeah I would not be surprised at all if there is no live show next week. It is weird that I hadn't noticed Dan cutting his live shows short for a couple of weeks now, because when Phil did it I definitely noticed.alittledizzy wrote: Tue Oct 03, 2017 9:30 pm
And I already call it that he won't do a liveshow next week at all which makes me extra curious to see if Phil streams Thursday. Also, another 45 minute liveshow? I feel like this is the new normal for Dan, he hasn't done an hour long one in two months.
Okay, editing to add - wow, Dan, nice straighteners on the floor there.
I hadn't noticed the straighteners either. Such an odd place for them to be seeing as Dan doesn't straighten his hair anymore.
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That was a very pretty ls. The combination of his soft but rustic jumper and the gilded and moon mirrors and the grey bedding just worked for me aesthetically. It was cozy, soft, shiny, minimalistic yet elegant. Not sure *why* he defaults to the moon room when Phil kicks him out of the lounge. There are other rooms he could stream from, the slounge or his filming space, or Phil could watch his show in the slounge. I'm not complaining, it's just curious. He referred to the lounge as upstairs again (implying it's relation to his bedroom) which I still don't buy with the flooring and doors but whatever. Moving on.
Odd that he never tweeted, he said he wanted to keep things intimate and it did feel that way. Very grateful to have baking confirmed. He mentioned Phil a lot. They had their first lattes of the season together. (October and November are my favorite months too and obviously my fave season is autumn... and winter.) Nice promo of the clothes vid and an unexpected one for Greg & Mitch of AasapSCIENCE who he seems to genuinely have valued getting to know, which had me tearing up a bit. More talk of Madrid. He only went to the roller disco for the food, stayed for the face glitter. Bring that matcha into your life.
The furry cosplayer bit was funny. The zombie cat reminded me of Phil's surgeon mouse costume from 2008 and zombie giraffe from 2013, was it? He seems to both distance and align himself with the furry fandom in liveshows. In gaming vids it's all jokes and hints, but in his streams he still seems uncertain.
Lots of other waffley vaguely insightful stuff I don't fully remember. He definitely has been thinking about interacting with his audience in person lately. Honestly I'm ready to let that week in March die, especially as it might be making him uncomfortable. I need to make dinner, but that was nice. Looking forward to gifs and pics later, cause yeah it was just eye candy for me.
Edit to add: Right okay, I didn't even see that shot of the corner of the room, my stream must have froze momentarily. Why the heck is the Rock Band drum kit in the bedroom? And still with the white silk thing hanging off the window shade... I noticed in the reflection of the moon mirror that there seems to be another curved wall, but it has like a dark accordian texture going on... I'll add a pic later.
Odd that he never tweeted, he said he wanted to keep things intimate and it did feel that way. Very grateful to have baking confirmed. He mentioned Phil a lot. They had their first lattes of the season together. (October and November are my favorite months too and obviously my fave season is autumn... and winter.) Nice promo of the clothes vid and an unexpected one for Greg & Mitch of AasapSCIENCE who he seems to genuinely have valued getting to know, which had me tearing up a bit. More talk of Madrid. He only went to the roller disco for the food, stayed for the face glitter. Bring that matcha into your life.
The furry cosplayer bit was funny. The zombie cat reminded me of Phil's surgeon mouse costume from 2008 and zombie giraffe from 2013, was it? He seems to both distance and align himself with the furry fandom in liveshows. In gaming vids it's all jokes and hints, but in his streams he still seems uncertain.
Lots of other waffley vaguely insightful stuff I don't fully remember. He definitely has been thinking about interacting with his audience in person lately. Honestly I'm ready to let that week in March die, especially as it might be making him uncomfortable. I need to make dinner, but that was nice. Looking forward to gifs and pics later, cause yeah it was just eye candy for me.
Edit to add: Right okay, I didn't even see that shot of the corner of the room, my stream must have froze momentarily. Why the heck is the Rock Band drum kit in the bedroom? And still with the white silk thing hanging off the window shade... I noticed in the reflection of the moon mirror that there seems to be another curved wall, but it has like a dark accordian texture going on... I'll add a pic later.
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Have we thought that maybe the whole "week in march" thing could've been a failed sponsor thing they legally cannot talk about but thought they could after a few months but found out they couldn't at all? And "blacklisting" it is because he just in generally can't mention it so what's the point of seeing it?
It doesn't bother me that he doesn't wanna talk about or blacklists it. There's clearly a reason he cannot talk about it and maybe we should just let it go at this point...
Other than that, it was a fast pace live show, which I'm kinda not used too. But then again there was a lot to cover over the past two weeks and he pretty much hit what was needed. lmao at the fact phil kicked him out to watch the show Dr Foster, wasn't that the one he mentioned watching because his mum was watching? Oh! And that hair straighter on the floor across from Phil's mirror in Dan's room... interesting.
I can't help but think that they may be planning to do some kinda meetup tour or something soon. They seem to really kinda miss touring and seeing the world.
And finally I have no clue what Dan's new video might be but as long as it's not bad like "the memeing of life" video or an isg, I'm all here for it!
Also, I haven't posted on here since before Phil's video but I loved it lots, my fave outfit was for sure the yellow shirt with white jeans, it just looked so nice honestly.
It doesn't bother me that he doesn't wanna talk about or blacklists it. There's clearly a reason he cannot talk about it and maybe we should just let it go at this point...
Other than that, it was a fast pace live show, which I'm kinda not used too. But then again there was a lot to cover over the past two weeks and he pretty much hit what was needed. lmao at the fact phil kicked him out to watch the show Dr Foster, wasn't that the one he mentioned watching because his mum was watching? Oh! And that hair straighter on the floor across from Phil's mirror in Dan's room... interesting.
And finally I have no clue what Dan's new video might be but as long as it's not bad like "the memeing of life" video or an isg, I'm all here for it!
Also, I haven't posted on here since before Phil's video but I loved it lots, my fave outfit was for sure the yellow shirt with white jeans, it just looked so nice honestly.
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I'm hoping for his next video to be the one that he was thinking about, but I'm guessing it'll just be another isg or something. He was mentioning some "cheeky video" that turned out to be the rebranding for months before he actually made it.
Also hair straighteners
Also hair straighteners
I listened to the show while walking home from uni and it made me really happy and relaxed and then I came home and saw that he has blacklisted "week in march"? has that been confirmed? it makes me sad no matter what's the reasoning behind it. idk, I might be overreacting a bit.
I think it's basically confirmed, people saying they got error messages when they mentioned it, some saying "can you talk about those seven days in the third month" then that message being deleted, and also the complete lack of talk about it in the chat even though everyone was wondering if he would talk about it.998274 wrote: Tue Oct 03, 2017 10:14 pm I listened to the show while walking home from uni and it made me really happy and relaxed and then I came home and saw that he has blacklisted "week in march"? has that been confirmed? it makes me sad no matter what's the reasoning behind it. idk, I might be overreacting a bit.
I'm not sure if he actually blacklisted it. I sent a few messages with just "week in march please" and they seemed to go through, the only error message I got was because apparently I wasn't waiting enough time between each message so they made me wait. But I don't know if the people saying they got error messages were talking about their superchats.
I think if it's something that ended up bad he'd just say he doesn't want/can't talk about it tbh? I dont know I still think the end of the ls when he was asking what else we wanted to talk about was suspicious. I lean more towards the idea he's just waiting for the right moment
EDIT: Forgot to mention that even though the chat was going crazy as Always I did see a couple of messages from other people mentioning it, although not nearly quite as many as I was expecting but everyone was just saying spoopy nicknames and cities
I think if it's something that ended up bad he'd just say he doesn't want/can't talk about it tbh? I dont know I still think the end of the ls when he was asking what else we wanted to talk about was suspicious. I lean more towards the idea he's just waiting for the right moment
EDIT: Forgot to mention that even though the chat was going crazy as Always I did see a couple of messages from other people mentioning it, although not nearly quite as many as I was expecting but everyone was just saying spoopy nicknames and cities
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I agree with this. I think that it's more of a not yet, not a never. If it was never, he'd say something vague and say he can't tell us right now. That, or he was just trolling us and is trying to come up with a good story for it.liola wrote: Tue Oct 03, 2017 10:27 pm I'm not sure if he actually blacklisted it. I sent a few messages with just "week in march please" and they seemed to go through, the only error message I got was because apparently I wasn't waiting enough time between each message so they made me wait. But I don't know if the people saying they got error messages were talking about their superchats.
I think if it's something that ended up bad he'd just say he doesn't want/can't talk about it tbh? I dont know I still think the end of the ls when he was asking what else we wanted to talk about was suspicious. I lean more towards the idea he's just waiting for the right moment
EDIT: Forgot to mention that even though the chat was going crazy as Always I did see a couple of messages from other people mentioning it, although not nearly quite as many as I was expecting but everyone was just saying spoopy nicknames and cities
EDIT: I've sent messages about that week in march and they did go through, but not superchats. Anyone here actually tried a superchat asking about it?
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I also sent messages about that week in march and didn't get any error messages, but I never actually saw my messages. I don't think the chat going fast would affect it because I always see my messages in the YouTube/YouNow chat.
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I don't really have an opinion on the whole week-in-march thing other than "if he wants to talk about he'll talk about it eventually". Just meh. Don't really care (and the best thing about not hyping it up is you can't be disappointed if it's inevitably, well. Disappointing.)
But I did just want to say I really appreciate Dan's shoutout to the ASAP boys. I've been subscribed to both of their channels for years and I've seen them move from their weird little room padded with mattresses to an actual office with a team and idk, I just feel strangely proud of them. They seem like amazing people who are generally very thoughtful and kind and open and I always wish them all the best. (They've also been very open about their experiences with being an out gay couple on the internet and every now and then will make a video about something that pops up a lot in comments and address the issues directly, which I really appreciate.)
But I did just want to say I really appreciate Dan's shoutout to the ASAP boys. I've been subscribed to both of their channels for years and I've seen them move from their weird little room padded with mattresses to an actual office with a team and idk, I just feel strangely proud of them. They seem like amazing people who are generally very thoughtful and kind and open and I always wish them all the best. (They've also been very open about their experiences with being an out gay couple on the internet and every now and then will make a video about something that pops up a lot in comments and address the issues directly, which I really appreciate.)
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Since I'm pretty sure the 'week in March' was a life thing and not a career thing, I am both intensely curious and also very fine with Dan and Phil (or Dan, lbr) tell us in his own time frame. I don't actually feel like it's anything to do with us, as an audience, basically.
Yes, me too!! I appreciate how genuine his 'stamp of approval' is.citizen_erased wrote: Tue Oct 03, 2017 10:55 pmBut I did just want to say I really appreciate Dan's shoutout to the ASAP boys.




