malday wrote:That Gleamers HelloWorld event is in October, as in two months from now...
But also everything dan and phil put out for d&p only content has come out in October too. Tabinof/tatinof, the tatinof films, also let's not forget, they met in October.
Obviously they're getting married and moving to their new remodeled house in october.
Also, ┏┓ in
┃┃╱╲ this
┃╱╱╲╲ house
╱╱╭╮╲╲ we do not
▔▏┗┛▕▔ Speak of d&p at gleamer events
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EDIT: here I am at the top of the page again... why.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 4:26 pm
by LtrllySusan
Can someone fill me in on that "Gleamers" thing? I found info on the Hello World event, but why don't we speak of it?
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 4:38 pm
by Vanderlyle
LtrllySusan wrote:Can someone fill me in on that "Gleamers" thing? I found info on the Hello World event, but why don't we speak of it?
we just playin' - they aren't that bad. in general, gleam has been seen in the past as rather elitist and exclusive as well as having slightly less integrity than some other YT management companies.
(Gleam in a YT management company that manages Zoella, Alfie, Caspar, Joe, Marcus, Zoella, Louise, Jim, Tanya, etc.)
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 4:46 pm
by rizzo
Vanderlyle wrote:
LtrllySusan wrote:Can someone fill me in on that "Gleamers" thing? I found info on the Hello World event, but why don't we speak of it?
we just playin' - they aren't that bad. in general, gleam has been seen in the past as rather elitist and exclusive as well as having slightly less integrity than some other YT management companies.
(Gleam in a YT management company that manages Zoella, Alfie, Caspar, Joe, Marcus, Zoella, Louise, Jim, Tanya, etc.)
I'm sure it wasn't intentional, but you writing Zoella twice is both hilarious and accurate.
To add on to this, generally D&P have always been loved in part because they go their own way. I'm sure Gleam has approached them and would do a backflip to represent them, but they're not about that lifestyle. They do their merch on their own, they lead the pack with their own management (FlipSide), and they don't really do the fake-a-friendship type collabs that Gleam tends to push.
While I too have found myself a bit nervous re: Deppy at HelloWorldLive! I think I've just convinced myself out of it. They wouldn't. They shouldn't.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 4:57 pm
by phoenixfeather
Awesomesauceness wrote:
You said this so eloquently! This was kind of what I wanted to say as well, but didn't really know how to articulate. Discussion is really a good way to learn about new things and even though it may feel uncomfortable to see an opinion different from your own, it's always interesting to see things from another perspective. I do think that sometimes issues concerning our cultures and places we call home are hard to have a discussion about, because there is a lot of personal stake and attachment in the matter. While it doesn't excuse negative behaviour I guess, it's still understandable why someone might react strongly in such a discussion.
I think also, because we all come from (I'm assuming) pretty different and diverse backgrounds, there are definitely things some of us have been exposed to and others haven't. Obviously, it doesn't excuse reacting badly or attacking people, but it might be jarring for someone to be held up to an expectation (and berated (?) in a way for not meeting it) that they don't fully know about or understand. One may think that they're being perfectly respectful, but they simply didn't understand what entails "respect" for the other person. As someone who spent they're entire life in Asia, when I first went to America I caused a lot of unintentional negative feelings because I accidentally offended people, because I simply didn't know some things. Where I went in America, China was pretty much a laughing stock and the butt of a lot of jokes, and I didn't take well to it, blindly attacking people for saying such things without thinking why my home had such a perception. Obviously not quite the same issue, but I guess it's natural for people to be defensive about their home, or something they've studied and feel pride in?
So I guess after a very long winded post, I just wanted to say that while things can get heated, discussion is a great place to learn things and we can all try more to understand where people are coming from. Basically what phoenixfeather said in much better words. Please excuse my English, it is not my first language and is very hard to use right. >~<
EDIT: I guess I have to stay on topic. I'm really sad that dan had to take down the tinder video! I actually very very liked that video, because as an LGBT person it meant so much to see someone not come out but also come out? I never really grasped the notion before this. So I'm disappointed to see it go. I guess I'll have to comb through the corners of the internet for a copy and stuff. Anyone here who's perception of LGBT related stuff changed after Dan and Phil? What (or what did you discover) changed for you guys?
i love that you're responding to my post about how we all are from different places but sounds like right now we're probably in the same city. way to ruin my point, dammit!
(ps thanks for thinking that was eloquent when i literally had to read it over ten times just to make sure it was coherent! i've been up for nearly 24 hours (which is normal for me, because i'm a total poster child for impeccable mental health) but trying to wean myself of coffee. so i'm surprised i was able to even form a sentence. and i wouldn't have even noticed that english wasn't your first language if you hadn't mentioned it )
here's my theory: the boys decided to do a howlter house remodel because the remodel of the forever home had a two month setback. the logistics of putting the aforementioned secret sex dungeon in an all glass house has proven difficult, and the only place that their sex swing would fit is underneath the koi pond, which obviously won't do. this has led to dan fantasizing about using his bdsm gear for a rammstein concert because right now it's just gathering dust.
(i actually (re)found them through their first howlter house remodel so i'm actually SO EXCITED)
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 5:00 pm
by blackdenim
I have heard that the Hello World tickets aren't selling as well as expected (like they're not exactly going to have an empty arena, but it's hardly the sellout they thought it was going to be either) so I have a feeling that if D&P were going to be there, they would have announced it by now because they would obviously become the main draw. Although they seem to like Zoe, and Dan gets on well with Caspar, I don't really think they would do the event? It doesn't seem very 'them'. And I don't think Gleam would want them to be there stealing focus from their own talent either to be honest.
Also I was going to say to the person that asked if any of the Gleamers were at SITC that Oli White was one of the 'headliners' so he must have been their representative... but I looked it up and it turns out he's not even with Gleam that's a serious Mandela Effect there. Tell me I'm not the only one who thought he was!?
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 5:02 pm
by thatdanandphilguy
I loved Dan’s liveshow, it left me feeling all warm and fuzzy and that is something I always appreciate. I wasn’t expecting him to make any announcements yet, though I also didn’t think talking about whatever was going on in march would take two more months. But I laughed out loud when he said it, it was just hilarious.
I wish he could have actually told more about what happened with tinder, but I do think it’s better for him to not go into any details and possibly get himself in trouble. What a slap in the face though, he who is so particular about the content he puts on his channel, decides to do a tinder spon despite not seeming at all thrilled about it (must have been pretty good money) and it’s actually super funny video that does very well and then he has to delete it.
Also, I never knew I needed to hear Dan say satsuma.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 5:03 pm
by annetamiau
rizzo wrote:
Vanderlyle wrote:
LtrllySusan wrote:Can someone fill me in on that "Gleamers" thing? I found info on the Hello World event, but why don't we speak of it?
we just playin' - they aren't that bad. in general, gleam has been seen in the past as rather elitist and exclusive as well as having slightly less integrity than some other YT management companies.
(Gleam in a YT management company that manages Zoella, Alfie, Caspar, Joe, Marcus, Zoella, Louise, Jim, Tanya, etc.)
I'm sure it wasn't intentional, but you writing Zoella twice is both hilarious and accurate.
To add on to this, generally D&P have always been loved in part because they go their own way. I'm sure Gleam has approached them and would do a backflip to represent them, but they're not about that lifestyle. They do their merch on their own, they lead the pack with their own management (FlipSide), and they don't really do the fake-a-friendship type collabs that Gleam tends to push.
While I too have found myself a bit nervous re: Deppy at HelloWorldLive! I think I've just convinced myself out of it. They wouldn't.They shouldn't.
Dan's passing comments about conventions not being good enough seem to reasonably point to the secret project going in that direction. Honestly I wouldn't care, I don't think Dan and Phil are more genuine than other youtubers so to me it would kinda be TATINOF 2 (or TATINOF + other Flipside youtubers if they really do it the Gleam way). I'm curious, would anyone be mad at them or think they are selling out/ have lost all integrity or something like that?
Also, what's with the reflections in EVERY liveshow? I swear they do it on purpose, they must be having fun messing with us.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 5:12 pm
by Vanderlyle
annetamiau wrote:
rizzo wrote:
Vanderlyle wrote:
LtrllySusan wrote:Can someone fill me in on that "Gleamers" thing? I found info on the Hello World event, but why don't we speak of it?
we just playin' - they aren't that bad. in general, gleam has been seen in the past as rather elitist and exclusive as well as having slightly less integrity than some other YT management companies.
(Gleam in a YT management company that manages Zoella, Alfie, Caspar, Joe, Marcus, Zoella, Louise, Jim, Tanya, etc.)
I'm sure it wasn't intentional, but you writing Zoella twice is both hilarious and accurate.
To add on to this, generally D&P have always been loved in part because they go their own way. I'm sure Gleam has approached them and would do a backflip to represent them, but they're not about that lifestyle. They do their merch on their own, they lead the pack with their own management (FlipSide), and they don't really do the fake-a-friendship type collabs that Gleam tends to push.
While I too have found myself a bit nervous re: Deppy at HelloWorldLive! I think I've just convinced myself out of it. They wouldn't.They shouldn't.
Dan's passing comments about conventions not being good enough seem to reasonably point to the secret project going in that direction. Honestly I wouldn't care, I don't think Dan and Phil are more genuine than other youtubers so to me it would kinda be TATINOF 2 (or TATINOF + other Flipside youtubers if they really do it the Gleam way). I'm curious, would anyone be mad at them or think they are selling out/ have lost all integrity or something like that?
nah i'd stan them no matter what pretty much - proud of the lads.
EDIT - rizzo unconsciously intentional lol
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 5:12 pm
by blackdenim
annetamiau wrote:
Dan's passing comments about conventions not being good enough seem to reasonably point to the secret project going in that direction. Honestly I wouldn't care, I don't think Dan and Phil are more genuine than other youtubers so to me it would kinda be TATINOF 2 (or TATINOF + other Flipside youtubers if they really do it the Gleam way). I'm curious, would anyone be mad at them or think they are selling out/ have lost all integrity or something like that?
Also, what's with the reflections in EVERY liveshow? I swear they do it on purpose, they must be having fun messing with us.
I don't think I would really care - it's not selling out any more than other conventions, etc they do. It's definitely not selling out more than DAPGO (to me!).
I don't really understand why the Gleam Team have a rep of selling out more than any other YouTubers when everyone in the YT Creator Community does pretty much the exact same stuff (merch/book/podcast/makeup line). Yes, their content isn't always the absolute artistic best it could be, but you can't fault them for making the most of the opportunities in front of them.
Hello World looks like quite an innovative event to be fair, if D&P were on the lineup I would definitely want to go - but I still think if they were involved it would have been announced by now.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 5:15 pm
by Vanderlyle
blackdenim wrote:
annetamiau wrote:
Dan's passing comments about conventions not being good enough seem to reasonably point to the secret project going in that direction. Honestly I wouldn't care, I don't think Dan and Phil are more genuine than other youtubers so to me it would kinda be TATINOF 2 (or TATINOF + other Flipside youtubers if they really do it the Gleam way). I'm curious, would anyone be mad at them or think they are selling out/ have lost all integrity or something like that?
Also, what's with the reflections in EVERY liveshow? I swear they do it on purpose, they must be having fun messing with us.
I don't think I would really care - it's not selling out any more than other conventions, etc they do. It's definitely not selling out more than DAPGO (to me!).
I don't really understand why the Gleam Team have a rep of selling out more than any other YouTubers when everyone in the YT Creator Community does pretty much the exact same stuff (merch/book/podcast/makeup line). Yes, their content isn't always the absolute artistic best it could be, but you can't fault them for making the most of the opportunities in front of them.
Hello World looks like quite an innovative event to be fair, if D&P were on the lineup I would definitely want to go - but I still think if they were involved it would have been announced by now.
yea, i don't think gleamers are any more "sell outs" than anyone else. the point of YT now is to market yourself. i am spouting off 2015 preconceptions bc that was the last time i was active on a daily basis - i am not as in touch with the way people are received now
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 5:17 pm
by SquishPhan
I'm thinking that starting with one would be a better choice.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 5:23 pm
by flarequake
I'm intrigued how a Dan and Phil convention would work, would it involve a variety of things, a different kind of stage show..? Well, that's a show instead, but they can't just do panel talks all day with just two of them. Hello World looks interesting, though the VIP tickets have sold out so I doubt they'd add Deps now. I was annoyed that you either get a seated ticket for the show or a standing one which includes a tour of their Main Street thingy which is led by one of the stars (though, from the wording, not quite all of them). I can't stand all that time, aged 22 my ankles couldn't do it even before my back had problems, so it'd be a shame to miss half of it. Weird to do something so inaccessible, I'm guessing they assume all kids can stand (wheelchairs can still be in the standing area) and that no one older would want to go. I doubt Deps could be tour guides either cos it could get too crazy for them.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 5:26 pm
by sentinel
I think the difference is that the Gleamers specifically left SITC because it wasn't making them money to do something that will bring in cash. Not that there is anything bad about it, but it seems so very money hungry. Further than that, they all make collabs for the cross-view-pollination, they started the trend of putting out as much content as possible for the highest amount of ad revenue, started the LQ book deals, etc. I've always liked that D&P don't harangue fans into buying stuff - their promo always seems "if you want some merch, here's some stuff", where as Gleamers go "buy this, this and that from me" - so if they do Hello World it would be a massive disappointment.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 5:54 pm
by alittledizzy
Timestamps for yesterday's liveshow.
2:00 - Insane amount of banter and catching up to get through. (And I predict literally none of it will be what we actually want to hear.)
2:06 - Explains the Tinder video. "Someone that I spoke to in the video did not want to be in the video and Tinder decided it should not be there out of respect for the person, which is totally fair enough." He thought it was fine, and it wasn't. Moment of silence for the video.
4:00 - He's been trying to work out best background for liveshows.
3:09 - One of the people didn't appreciate his "unique pick up lines." That's what happens when you involve other people in your youtube videos.
3:33 - Cats are evil. That's that.
3:39 - It's been a "crazy week."
4:00 - Talks about the background for his younow shows; bed was a complete flop, he can't find a background. Talks about moving the DVDs and replacing them with something else.
4:27 - "Talk about that week in March." Pretends not to know when that was. "After we moved. Before Australia." He'll get back to us on that in another two months. Moves on swiftly.
5:00 - Make-a-Wish foundation, mentions some of the ones they've done before.
6:14 - The only thing she really cared about was making him go to Hamilton.
6:26 - Tomska "First Contact" sketch; more tea to be sipped with that. Dan comments on how much Tom divulges in his Last Week videos.
7:29 - Showing a reflection. Just like they've both done regularly for the last few liveshows. Trolls. Why would Dan have sunglasses he bought in 2014 just laying around. Why put them on for no reason. Why talk about them for a literal minute. Illuminati signals abound.
8:30 - "Dan wasn't following the rules in the way that he thought he was." Whoops. The issue for Dan is that there's an even larger gap than normal.
8:57 - He doesn't like that there's an even bigger gaping hole on his channel now.
9:17 - He got rained on today.
9:47 - Duncan and Mimei coming to London. Talks about being a tour guide and the route he took them on.
11:36- Back to the Tomska sketch, talks about people wanting Dan playing Dan. "Which I guess. If you're putting danisnotonfire in a youtube sketch it's obvious why you'd want me to play Dan and not... a plumber."
12:24 - He did an unpaid internship at a law firm for a month. "That was great. Made a video out of it. Obviously."
12:50 - "Have fun with the naked anime guys."
13:13 - As a "paranoid, stressed introvert" a hard week for him is one where he's had lots of plans made.
13:25 - Phil's mum's birthday; they stayed with Martyn but came over. There's normal cleaning and then there's 'family member or someone you know's family is going to visit your house.' Cleaning apocalypse.
14:39 - Talks about being on his best behavior for Phil's family. Making Phil look back in comparison, which is the best thing.
15:37 - Make your friend suffer by being perfect, then give them a glance of true evil.
15:55 - "For the actual birthday, we went to see Wicked." Cute naggy boyfriend voice but Dan literally no one believes you are default in on the Lester family plans now. Wicked opinions.
18:03 - Opinions on Marilyn Manson. He likes him, but there's a time when he was afraid of Marilyn Manson. 'Going to hell' guilt when he was twelve.
18:57 - Someone in the chat says "hell isn't real" and Dan finger snaps.
19:49 - Started playing a new game, won't tell us so we don't spoil him. As an introvert, needs to be buy himself and he's living in a roleplaying fantasy universe.
20:26 - Shows us the picture of Colin on his mug.
20:37 - Game of Thrones
21:21 - Tells the story about spilling his pint of water on the computer.
22:19 - Says he didn't go on the internet all weekend was turned off.
22:35 - He'll watch In a Heartbeat. "Nothing effs with your heart like short films that are animated with cute characters." Some weird distancing about how it doesn't matter if it's relatable or not.
24:18 - Dan is very offended by people not knowing what dabbing actually means.
14:04 - Talks about an orange. This must be really bugging Dan and Phil to both be bringing it up. Or it's just another hint. Everything is a hit. Their new house is spherical. They live on Orange Street. They're considering a tangerine colored accent wall. Idk. Need to Sherlock this out.
25:58 - Dream Daddy. Acknowledges that it's better than he expected, still sort of distancing himself, probably to pre-empt over the top reactions or expectations. (Fancybum said it better, why are you even here? Go read her tally.)
27:52 - "There's dads out there. They date other dads." It's a perfectly normal thing. But everyone has opinions.
28:49 - They filmed another Dream Daddy, Sims video before the next DD.
29:40 - Sims talk. "We've recently got a new addition to the family, a baby." There's one for the 'likes to take things wildly out of context' crowd.
30:47 - They've been training themselves to do livestreaming. Maybe at some point soon. This month perhaps.
31:03 - Phil's parents for three days in a row, then Duncan and Mimei, then breakfast with another friend who spontaniously contacted him, then had to "go do" work over the weekend. He's good, just wants to not interact with another person for a long time. (So... what work did he have to /go/ do, hmm.)
31:40 - Won't spoil what games they will stream.
31:48 - Uncomfortable daddy moment.
31:58 - Old lady twitter photo.
33:26 - He's been outed as the doctor. Time traveling gender role defying fashion icon that will appear in your house.
33:28 - The rest of his lookalikes are gay porn stars.
33:54 - Comment on Dan's video about white eyeliner.
36:00 - I too welcome our future dog overlords.
37:06 - Last cooked a Sunday roast.... does it count if he helped a friend by passing them things in the kitchen a month ago? (I'm gonna propose the theory that the friend was Bryony or Wirrow, and it was their d&d night.)
37:53 - He had a bro brunch over the weekend.
38:25 - He does not have a secret twitter.
39:20 - R v. Brown; legal case about a couple in their sixties wanting to brand each other.
40:18 - Name drops very suspiciously specific types of fanfic kinks.
40:37 - Music talk. I'm zoning.
41:57 - "full BDSM gear" and I zoned back in (emma ty so much for providing the visual accompaniment to this comment)
42:19 - He's trying to find a piano teacher that will come to his house.
42:45- Last week he planned on sorting some things in his life out and it turned into the Dan "dealing with drama and social" week. Video has gone to the puppy farm to play with all the other private videos.
43:52 - Stumbles over "to not annoy people" when talking about liking that you can plug headphones into the piano.
43:55 - House tour? No. "I might move-" He's definitely talking about the shelves, yes, but also, he's a troll.
44:12 - Book recommendations. "I was gonna show you that, but that would be making fun of my crazy uncle." Pulls out Delia Smith, the biography.
45:28 - Next dinof will be unoffensive, have no opinions, involve no people, and be fine. ("Is that possible? Nope.")
45:58 - pinof 9 in November, don't rush him.
46:20 - Carousel story; went to South Bank with Duncan and Mimei and Phil made him go on the carousel.
47:48 - Dunkirk; saw it twice bc it's three timezones and it confused him.
50:13 - Watching new anime now.
50:18 - Earrings are downstairs in a box.
50:40 - He likes Troye... Troye's hair.
50:58 - Dan expresses wrong opinions about pineapple on pizza; world keeps turning.
51:24 - Does he ship danthony? "As if I'd be like... yeah."
51:56 - He doesn't think things through.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 6:26 pm
by fancybum
alittledizzy wrote:43:55 - House tour? No. "I might move-" He's definitely talking about the shelves, yes, but also, he's a troll.
Ok I'll be the first to say my tinfoil is too tight (and if they are intentionally dropping any other hints about moving, my tinfoil isn't even internally consistent) but like what is up with this fixation on his backgrounds? Is it really just his normal perfectionism thing orrrr... Because I feel like it's a way of keeping options open for a brand new background at some point, like 'nobody get comfortable m'kay' BUT WHAT IF they'll just haru another move and be Ultimate Trolls. Like one day everything will be a different background (a different place altogether) and Dan will just be like 'so I switched up my background, you like? maybe needs another succ' and like. They just won't comment. This makes no sense, but neither does his continuing vocal obsession with rearranging his shelves. It feels so intentional? No? Just me? Well, as you were then.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 6:30 pm
by alittledizzy
fancybum wrote:
alittledizzy wrote:43:55 - House tour? No. "I might move-" He's definitely talking about the shelves, yes, but also, he's a troll.
Ok I'll be the first to say my tinfoil is too tight (and if they are intentionally dropping any other hints about moving, my tinfoil isn't even internally consistent) but like what is up with this fixation on his backgrounds? Is it really just his normal perfectionism thing orrrr... Because I feel like it's a way of keeping options open for a brand new background at some point, like 'nobody get comfortable m'kay' BUT WHAT IF they'll just haru another move and be Ultimate Trolls. Like one day everything will be a different background (a different place altogether) and Dan will just be like 'so I switched up my background, you like? maybe needs another succ' and like. They just won't comment. This makes no sense, but neither does his continuing vocal obsession with rearranging his shelves. It feels so intentional? No? Just me? Well, as you were then.
The fact that one of the last big Things before he did to hint before the liveshow on the bed in the old place was him waxing poetic about needing a new background and being unsatisfied with his current one has my mental alarm bells ringing still. I do think it's the 'keeping options open' thing but it's very difficult not to associate it with the last time he said the same thing, and one of those options he's keeping open is new background in a whole new house.
In which case, I kind of hope they do it exactly like you said.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 6:33 pm
by hello9217
I really doubt they would do Hello World. When the Gleamers ditched SITC a couple years ago to do Amity Fest, dnp still did SITC. Also I remember Dan saying in a ls once that they would tell their audience beforehand if any big event is coming up so they could make sure to be prepared. If we have to wait until October for this announcement they wouldn't say they were going to Hello World right when it was about to open.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 6:49 pm
by coffeepenguin
We have moved on already, but I just wanted to add my two cents to the "nobody talks to me here" discussion. There have been a lot of good points already, shout outs to thephandommenace, nøx, pilotlight, LeftHandedism and others
Now, it's been nearly a year since I joined the forum and I've definitely felt many times that my posts go unnoticed on here and that I'll never make friends in the phandom (I haven't yet, but you can hmu any time if you're interested, just saying). I've never been active on any forum or in my previous fandoms, so this felt like a fresh start, but then I was convinced there must be something inherently wrong with me because people don't want to engage and for others it seems so easy. The key word here, I think, is "seems". I kept posting though, because I don't have any other place to partake in my shameful youtube obsession anyway, and slowly, very slowly, people started answering. And I began to engage more, too (it's still a journey, mind you), because I don't have the habit and in the beginning it was really scary, I'm always afraid of being misunderstood and I loath conflicts. I've thought about it a lot and what I said about the key word being "it seems easy for others" is really important, I think. Like, I know myself that English is my third language and it takes me a ridiculous amount of time to formulate things, and then people keep posting new things, and I keep rewriting until it lost all relevance whatsoever and then I post it anyway, but nobody responds and I feel like a completely useless human being. But does anyone else know it? No, they just want to talk about a new video, or about how they need a new video asap, or about how the new video was disappointing, or about how cute Phil looks in glasses, or about how Dan is always problematic. Or, alternatively, they feel the same fear I do about posting and are caught up in their own anxiety and don't respond to my post because of that. In any case, I feel like the only solution is to keep posting and also, at least for me, it's nice to know the person I'm responding a little bit, so I usually respond to people who have already been posting for some time because I just feel more of a connection, I guess. But I love you all, guys, always
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 7:40 pm
by DatCog
Sims Vid!!
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 7:49 pm
by blackdenim
I'm so happy they finally extended the pool it's been bugging me how small it is since they put it in!
Although I'm 7 mins in and I'm starting to hope they don't actually buy a forever home together because they would surely kill each other trying to decide how to decorate and do the garden
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 8:01 pm
by DatCog
Haven't finished watching but do you think there's more leaning into each other and arm touching than usual?
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 8:03 pm
by blackdenim
DatCog wrote:Haven't finished watching but do you think there's a lot more leaning into each other and arm touching than usual?
YES I have 100% noticed and I don't usually pick up on that stuff in their videos at all.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 8:06 pm
by DatCog
blackdenim wrote:
DatCog wrote:Haven't finished watching but do you think there's a lot more leaning into each other and arm touching than usual?
YES I have 100% noticed and I don't usually pick up on that stuff in their videos at all.
Phil is really leaning into Dan for most of the video! What's that about?! His arms are REALLY freckly, I've never noticed that before
Edit to avoid double post: Finished the video and I love what they've done with the house/garden!
The ribena pool is vile though, what were you thinking Phil??
Great job
Re: Dan & Phil Part 52: And They Were Roommates
Posted: Wed Aug 09, 2017 8:15 pm
by LtrllySusan
On today's editon of out of context quotes: "Making our actual dream house"
Also, this lamp situation is severly upsetting me:
Also wth is the story of Dan rubbing himself on a breakfast bar? :wtf: