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I was not referring to the lack of condom part but more the lack of lube/prep but apparently it's not in all definitions.

Many people think anal sex without condom is nasty actually. The bottom might not like everything flowing out of them after they're finished, the top might not be into the idea of sticking their dick into the hole where poop comes from (especially when the bottom hasn't cleaned himself down there properly). So even many committed homosexual couples use condoms, just to avoid the mess.

Edit: Thank every deity out there that this wasn't top of the page :') Imma soak in some bleach now.

majitzu wrote:

daphenaxa wrote:I had to google "rawing" because I didn't know what it was (and thought you were talking of rowing, which was weird). I'll be praying for all of your souls.

Hahhah i just check it too. I was like "I don't know what this word means but maybe I can get the meaning by the context" but I gave up

Of course it means that, this is idb

Lurking Trash , but you use lube, is only that there is no condom

gnostic wrote:
"Homosexuality is the best form of contraception"

[offtopic]Disclaimer:
Barebacking is no joke when done between two adults that have no idea if they have STD's or are not telling their respective partner if they have STD's. There are stereotypes for a reason, and careless actions of some lead to complications with many.

Please be safe.

(ofc It's a different story for committed partners who have been tested and don't lie to eachother)[/offtopic]

phew, got that out of the way, haha I caught that when i heard "rawr". I'm just so dirty, darn.

majitzu wrote:

majitzu wrote:

daphenaxa wrote:I had to google "rawing" because I didn't know what it was (and thought you were talking of rowing, which was weird). I'll be praying for all of your souls.

Hahhah i just check it too. I was like "I don't know what this word means but maybe I can get the meaning by the context" but I gave up

Of course it means that, this is idb

Lurking Trash , but you use lube, is only that there is no condom

For the ones that googled the very first google response is this:

This forum is pure definition of edutainment.

Anonymousse wrote:

gnostic wrote:
"Homosexuality is the best form of contraception"

[offtopic]Disclaimer:
Barebacking is no joke when done between two adults that have no idea if they have STD's or are not telling their respective partner if they have STD's. There are stereotypes for a reason, and careless actions of some lead to complications with many.

Please be safe.

(ofc It's a different story for committed partners who have been tested and don't lie to eachother)[/offtopic]

phew, got that out of the way, haha I caught that when i heard "rawr". I'm just so dirty, darn.

My very first post on this topiс started that absence of condoms was very bad in context of lack of STD control, so I am good.

Also, yes some people are not into bareback anal, but instinctive immediate negative reaction to the very notion is very different. Granted, I have never seen "no lube" part of definition which again of course changes things

I didn't know what rawed meant but guessed correctly and didn't need all this graphic detail. Thanks for telling me more than I really wanted to know. Glad to know you've always got my back!

I loved the new video. I watched it this morning before school but didn't have time to post here then. Such a silly concept, but very Phil, and very like him to have sat on a video idea for ages before posting it. The first thing I noticed was the obviously separate beds (like couples on old TV shows, because apparently showing them sharing a bed was too risque). So I have you guys to blame for that. The bants were top notch, and even though I'm like Dan and think astrology is nonsense, I thought Caroline's observations about Phil were especially spot on. Yeah, she probably got the info from watching their videos, but it was cute and entertaining. I've watched it twice and will probably come back to it when on D&P video binges during content droughts.

Yeah, rawing doesn't necessarily mean you have to do the do without lube, though I forgive the people that were misled by Urban Dictionary, but can we all just agree that the term ''rawing'' is gross as hell. I'm not a green smoothie. If anyone used that term unironically before entering me, I would be so turned off that my vagina would probably make the Windows XP shutting down noise.

Maybe he did find the $5 on the pavement and that's what popped the video idea into his head? Lol I'm reaching now. I also thought it was funny they used the little heads on the tour bus, I know it's from the Brits Twitter but maybe they do lurk here and seeing it everyday reminded them of it

yeah "rawing" is pretty aggressive and suggests something more sudden rather than planned and agreed on. it's not really a two way thing, no condom or lube is definitely the more common definition. i don't think that many bottoms are actually into it given how painful and uncomfortable it is, both during and afterwards. unless they're really into being in pain, and to an extent far past a usual 'pain kink' thing, it's just a top being selfish and careless.

but honestly id imagine they'd still use condoms. it's not like PiV sex where the condom doesn't serve any purpose other than prevention of STDs or pregnancy, it's often something appreciated. especially by people who aren't 21 and on grindr.

they're pretty prissy people. besides that, anal just has a much larger chance of STDs. they're not people who take risks, even if risk is minuscule. a slip up of someone lying or simply not knowing their status can have horrific consequences. it's not really something that should be encouraged, even in a committed relationship.

bedhead91 wrote:Yeah, rawing doesn't necessarily mean you have to do the do without lube, though I forgive the people that were misled by Urban Dictionary, but can we all just agree that the term ''rawing'' is gross as hell. I'm not a green smoothie. If anyone used that term unironically before entering me, I would be so turned off that my vagina would probably make the Windows XP shutting down noise.

I really really wish we had the thanks button

LurkingTrash wrote: For the ones that googled the very first google response is this:

Yes, that's what I got when I googled it. Hence Ewww.

jaej wrote:yeah "rawing" is pretty aggressive and suggests something more sudden rather than planned and agreed on. it's not really a two way thing, no condom or lube is definitely the more common definition. i don't think that many bottoms are actually into it given how painful and uncomfortable it is, both during and afterwards. unless they're really into being in pain, and to an extent far past a usual 'pain kink' thing, it's just a top being selfish and careless.

but honestly id imagine they'd still use condoms. it's not like PiV sex where the condom doesn't serve any purpose other than prevention of STDs or pregnancy, it's often something appreciated. especially by people who aren't 21 and on grindr.

they're pretty prissy people. besides that, anal just has a much larger chance of STDs. they're not people who take risks, even if risk is minuscule. a slip up of someone lying or simply not knowing their status can have horrific consequences. it's not really something that should be encouraged, even in a committed relationship.

Waiting to be banned for being offtopic as hell but:

1) is this an issue of different communities? What communities does your experience come from? I have never before heard of no lube definition beyond "rawdog and bail" context

2) Being in committed relationship knowing each other STD status generally puts the risk of STD out of your mind unless you keep allowing for possibility of your partner cheating or are in open relationship.

3) There are committed gay couples who use and don't use condoms just like there are committed gay couples who forgo anal altogether. But I believe there is enough studies to confirm use of condoms in committed relationships is uncommon. And really, if you know each other's STD status and check up regularly, why should it be discouraged?

Finally, it reminds me of several queer women sites of younger audience who constantly remind each other to use female condoms and all admit not to doing it irl. If anyone ever meets a female hook up who insists on using female condom, like, message me and I will send you a donut or smth

bedhead91 wrote:Yeah, rawing doesn't necessarily mean you have to do the do without lube, though I forgive the people that were misled by Urban Dictionary, but can we all just agree that the term ''rawing'' is gross as hell. I'm not a green smoothie. If anyone used that term unironically before entering me, I would be so turned off that my vagina would probably make the Windows XP shutting down noise.

oh my fucking god

i rewatched the video. it's growing on me. phil looks dreamy af
one thing that bugs me though is that dan's lower freckle/mole/sad dimple eye has a red scratch mark over it in a few videos. like he's itched it or something and the mark just hasn't gone away. can anyone else see it or is it just me?

Sorry for starting a shitstorm about Anal-phobia. I only read the rawing definition that included no lube. Let's talk about houseplants hmmm?
Or Phil's sugar habit: I see he didn't take "Caroline's" warnings about his diet to heart! Sugar, lactose, fat & caffeine in one delicious cup . (The Starbucks with whipped cream and chocolate sauce doesn't show up in the preview, only the full photo soz)

it makes me laugh that like all the employees of that space center know them.

bluntedclaws wrote:Sorry for starting a shitstorm about Anal-phobia.

Quoting something from 2 threads ago:

manged wrote:Please never use "bottoms" and "shitstorm" so closely together oh god

Similar plea.

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Phil please, I'm worried for your digestive system.

Stop.

^oops

Goddammit Dan you promised us you will look after Phil you failed all us IDB mother hens

Unstanning

Late chiming in on Phil's latest video: I liked it, and enjoy the contrast between his and Dan's style. And I don't think finding the $5 bill on a parking lot was a fabrication in itself. Was it the sole inspiration for this piece? I doubt it - I'm thinking this vid was a work-in-progress.

Anyway, I was thinking about hotel rooms. They don't seem to be divas / living it up in 4/5-stars properties, even when in large cities. I commend them for sticking to their 2/3-star ethic. Also helps with crew bonding (I've had to deal with hotel room jealousy / envy on some projects, yuk - it has the potential to expose the worst in people.)

bedhead91 wrote:Yeah, rawing doesn't necessarily mean you have to do the do without lube, though I forgive the people that were misled by Urban Dictionary, but can we all just agree that the term ''rawing'' is gross as hell. I'm not a green smoothie. If anyone used that term unironically before entering me, I would be so turned off that my vagina would probably make the Windows XP shutting down noise.

Oh sweet Jesus Vegan, lactose and gluten free, paleo-based sex. (Rawing reminds me of Phan smut written by 11 y/o)

Re: Space Jam pictures ( ). Sneaky hand Phil?

Sorry Dan, Phil did roared before he met you

Ticia wrote:Vegan, lactose and gluten free, paleo-based s-

Philip, you hear that? I hope that shit's soy with soy vegan whip dairy free syrup gluten free caramel and lactose free ice 'cause the woodpecker done told you now you know it's serious. smh.

(and I agree with you bedhead91 )

Hi all. A new fan here. Just finished the book. I dunno if it's ever been discussed or brought up before, but I realized I like Phil more when he's fringeless. Still a full for both of them though. That picture above just made me realize how much I preferred fringeless Phil.