thatdanandphilguy, 100% agree with you, it really depends on how you are as a person/how you were raised and it also can depend on how your friend's parents are as people, too. personally I'm usually rather on my "best behavior" around my best friend(s)' parents, too, simply because I'm a very anxious person who tends to overthink. even though I've known all of my best friends for more than a decade, I still can't say I'm comfortable enough to be completely relaxed and more myself around their parents.
and just because it's appropriate to post this cuteness now
edit: oh welp, my first "top of the page" post lol
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Tue Aug 01, 2017 11:38 pm
by ArtyJim
i think something dan (and phil and a lot of people on the internet tbh) do is think of something during a situation that can be easily turned into something relatable and shared onto the internet. it doesn't necessarily mean it's exactly how he's feeling in that exact moment. i'm sure there are definitely things dan does differently when around the lesters like probably no cursing. but i can't imagine after all this time on vacations with them that he doesn't feel comfortable or able to relax around them.
imo this is another one of those Relatable Tweets that everyone has experienced in one way or another.
i personally love that he wants to let everyone know he's sticking around for lester's visit.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Tue Aug 01, 2017 11:43 pm
by xaephan
malday wrote:
Catallena wrote:Dan is pretty much acting like a nervous son in law and tweeting about it. I love content.
He just really needed to let the world know.
I haven't had a chance to go through most of this thread yet (curse you, work, getting in the way of my fandoms), but yes, this! I had the biggest smile when reading through those tweets. I don't know if 'the bbq phil dropped was for dan's grandparents' theory's been debunked, but it's interesting that dnp keeps telling us that they're sticking around when the other's family visits.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 12:28 am
by Catallena
Honestly I've known my best friend and her parents for 20 years but I'm tooth achingly polite towards adults (like actual adults not that fail adult I am lmao) anyway so I am to her parents as well. It's definitely also a awkwardness and anxiety thing, in my mind by being a polite and perfect as possible I minimize the chance of fucking up and them thinking badly about me. They're quite strict as well so it really just works in my favor. My best friend however has a super casual relationship with my parents, especially my mom. She'll come around my house while I'm still out running errands and fix herself a drink in my kitchen while openly talking to my mom and I'm barely able to get myself a glass of water at her place. Like others have said, it all depends on the people involved.
I'm mostly surprised at Dan having never mentioned this before I guess. I mean after all the trips with Phil's family I kinda imagined their relationship to be casual and carefree from both sides but appaz Dan ain't quite there lol. Or maybe it's all ~a lie~ and just an excuse for a relatable™ tweet. Either way it's cute. The way Dan is always involved in Lester family get togethers is cute. Everything is just really cute.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 12:50 am
by howadorableright
I'm not sure if this has been mentioned yet bc I've only skimmed the last few pages, but are the Lesters staying at deppy's? I think I saw someone mention that they were staying with Martyn and Cornelia but it seems like they'll be there tomorrow, too? Even though the obvious answer to this is that they just drive over to deppy's in the morning, what if they are staying with them? they don't have a guest room as far as i know, and sleeping on the couch seems pretty impractical for a large man. I hate to add to the bedroom discourse but this was just in the back of my head and I'm curious.
adding on to the being-on-your-best-behavior-in-front-of-your-friend's-parents thing, I've always tried to be more respectful but casual at the same time, although I do get anxiety when it comes to that kind of thing. I love how carefree dan and phil have been lately about informing us that they're with the other's family. Just this past December dan was trying to keep it lowkey that he joined the Lester's for Christmas for a few days and now he's all "Phil's parents are here and I love them and we're all a big happy family." it warms my little heart
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 1:22 am
by sunshinias
mesmericphilip wrote:I'm not sure if this has been mentioned yet bc I've only skimmed the last few pages, but are the Lesters staying at deppy's? I think I saw someone mention that they were staying with Martyn and Cornelia but it seems like they'll be there tomorrow, too? Even though the obvious answer to this is that they just drive over to deppy's in the morning, what if they are staying with them? they don't have a guest room as far as i know, and sleeping on the couch seems pretty impractical for a large man. I hate to add to the bedroom discourse but this was just in the back of my head and I'm curious.
iirc Phil mentioned in his liveshow that they were staying with Martynelia.
Edit: Yep, 15:08
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 1:43 am
by pastelspectre
i've known my best friend for like 6 years now and i'm pretty much always polite around her parents i'm like that around pretty much every adult though to be honest. however i do also have a crush on her so i'm probs extra polite around them.. i dunno
cute that dan decided to tweet that tho. lovin the domesticity vibes im getting
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 7:29 am
by bookfiend
So this is slightly off topic but as no vid yesterday. I was re-watching the Horse Prince vids and does anyone know why Dan (and now the phandom) keep insisting Phil is born in the Year of the Horse?!? :wtf:
I thought they were talking about the Chinese Zodiac in which case Phil is a Year of the Rabbit.
Also because I'm too amused by this description:
"The Rabbit (Hare) represents longevity, discretion and good luck. It has the fourth position in the Chinese Zodiac. People born under the sign of the Rabbit are kind-hearted, friendly, intelligent, cautious, skillful, gentle, quick and live long. They dislike fighting and like to find solutions through compromise and negotiation. On the negative side, Rabbit people have the potential to be superficial, stubborn, melancholy and overly-discreet. The men under the sign of the rabbit are mostly the family-type. They are fond of trimming the garden & interior decoration.
Best Match: Sheep, Dog, Pig"
Guess what our boy Daniel is Baa
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 8:05 am
by Susanisnotafish
bookfiend wrote:So this is slightly off topic but as no vid yesterday. I was re-watching the Horse Prince vids and does anyone know why Dan (and now the phandom) keep insisting Phil is born in the Year of the Horse?!? :wtf:
I thought they were talking about the Chinese Zodiac in which case Phil is a Year of the Rabbit.
Also because I'm too amused by this description:
"The Rabbit (Hare) represents longevity, discretion and good luck. It has the fourth position in the Chinese Zodiac. People born under the sign of the Rabbit are kind-hearted, friendly, intelligent, cautious, skillful, gentle, quick and live long. They dislike fighting and like to find solutions through compromise and negotiation. On the negative side, Rabbit people have the potential to be superficial, stubborn, melancholy and overly-discreet. The men under the sign of the rabbit are mostly the family-type. They are fond of trimming the garden & interior decoration.
Best Match: Sheep, Dog, Pig"
Guess what our boy Daniel is Baa
Aaaaww! Thanks for this infomative and accurate post!
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 8:22 am
by Whommel
bookfiend wrote:So this is slightly off topic but as no vid yesterday. I was re-watching the Horse Prince vids and does anyone know why Dan (and now the phandom) keep insisting Phil is born in the Year of the Horse?!? :wtf:
I thought they were talking about the Chinese Zodiac in which case Phil is a Year of the Rabbit.
Also because I'm too amused by this description:
"The Rabbit (Hare) represents longevity, discretion and good luck. It has the fourth position in the Chinese Zodiac. People born under the sign of the Rabbit are kind-hearted, friendly, intelligent, cautious, skillful, gentle, quick and live long. They dislike fighting and like to find solutions through compromise and negotiation. On the negative side, Rabbit people have the potential to be superficial, stubborn, melancholy and overly-discreet. The men under the sign of the rabbit are mostly the family-type. They are fond of trimming the garden & interior decoration.
Best Match: Sheep, Dog, Pig"
Guess what our boy Daniel is Baa
I don't believe in stuff like this, why does this make me happy?!?
I can see online that it changes from Tiger to Rabbit on Jan 29th 1987, just one day before his birthday, so no horses anywhere near.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 8:46 am
by thephandommenace
Whommel wrote:
bookfiend wrote:So this is slightly off topic but as no vid yesterday. I was re-watching the Horse Prince vids and does anyone know why Dan (and now the phandom) keep insisting Phil is born in the Year of the Horse?!? :wtf:
I thought they were talking about the Chinese Zodiac in which case Phil is a Year of the Rabbit.
Also because I'm too amused by this description:
"The Rabbit (Hare) represents longevity, discretion and good luck. It has the fourth position in the Chinese Zodiac. People born under the sign of the Rabbit are kind-hearted, friendly, intelligent, cautious, skillful, gentle, quick and live long. They dislike fighting and like to find solutions through compromise and negotiation. On the negative side, Rabbit people have the potential to be superficial, stubborn, melancholy and overly-discreet. The men under the sign of the rabbit are mostly the family-type. They are fond of trimming the garden & interior decoration.
Best Match: Sheep, Dog, Pig"
Guess what our boy Daniel is Baa
I don't believe in stuff like this, why does this make me happy?!?
I can see online that it changes from Tiger to Rabbit on Jan 29th 1987, just one day before his birthday, so no horses anywhere near.
I wondered if it was his birthday being early in the year that maybe that's why people thought he was year of the horse but thanks for debunking that too!
And this post is amazing
Usually my reaction to zodiac stuff:
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Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 10:12 am
by LtrllySusan
So, since we're lacking content and are still wondering about #thatweekinmarch, I thought I'd create some content to keep the discussion going! I counted the amount of videos that were uploaded this year by the guys (excluding LSs/side channels) and also included collabs on other channels*. My theory was that less gaming videos would mean that they are busy and something might be coming. And indeed, there has been less D&P-only videos and the collabs aren't much work for them aside from filming, especially when they are bulk-filmed like the Anthony stuff that was all shot in one day.
But my biggest surprise is that March was full of videos, especially gaming videos. There were even more than in April, where they were travelling and moving. So, how busy were they exactly during #thatweekinmarch? Or did they just bulk-produce twice that month to keep us from becoming suspicious?
* I am not sure if I remembered all the collabs since the DD is outdated. Here's my data; please lmk if I forgot anything (probs did)[spoiler][/spoiler]
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 11:46 am
by iwishiwasacasual
LtrllySusan wrote:So, since we're lacking content and are still wondering about #thatweekinmarch, I thought I'd create some content to keep the discussion going! I counted the amount of videos that were uploaded this year by the guys (excluding LSs/side channels) and also included collabs on other channels*. My theory was that less gaming videos would mean that they are busy and something might be coming. And indeed, there has been less D&P-only videos and the collabs aren't much work for them aside from filming, especially when they are bulk-filmed like the Anthony stuff that was all shot in one day.
But my biggest surprise is that March was full of videos, especially gaming videos. There were even more than in April, where they were travelling and moving. So, how busy were they exactly during #thatweekinmarch? Or did they just bulk-produce twice that month to keep us from becoming suspicious?
* I am not sure if I remembered all the collabs since the DD is outdated. Here's my data; please lmk if I forgot anything (probs did)[spoiler][/spoiler]
didn't phil only do one video with nanalew (that's her name right?) and then they both did that video with cat in june, there's probably others that i've forgotten.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 11:58 am
by LtrllySusan
Oh yeah, I did forget the Cat video, so mentally add a +1 green on that bar. The Nana video is included in the AP bar since I didn't want to segment it even further. She posted her side of the collab in two seperate videos though.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 12:02 pm
by Whommel
LtrllySusan wrote:Oh yeah, I did forget the Cat video, so mentally add a +1 green on that bar. The Nana video is included in the AP bar since I didn't want to segment it even further. She posted her side of the collab in two seperate videos though.
thatdanandphilguy wrote:And best behaviour doesn’t really need to mean something extreme. It’s more like cleaning up your language, not talking about all the same subjects you can talk with your friend, being generally more polite and serving to people who are guests in your house. You might let your close friend make their own coffee/tea when they visit you, but usually with people you don’t see that often you make it for them.
Haha exactly, for me, I put on "best behaviour" with anyone but my closest friends/family.
Even when uncles and aunts and grandmas visit me I do it. It simply means not being gross & sitting on a sofa with your limbs everywhere and dropping crumbs of whatever you're eating all across the house
And of course, serving the guests, I guess that's what he meant.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 1:36 pm
by somethingsketchy
I'm bummed that Phil hasn't reacted to #vasegate past liking this beautiful piece of phanart on Tumblr.
Interesting graph. The volume of gaming channel vids in the spring makes me feel deprived. What are you up to boys?
Cute fan art! I really like the plantboy!phil concept and what people have been doing with it since #vasegate. Too funny.
On a related note, I rewatched Dan's last liveshow last night with the husband (mainly because I wanted him the hear the emo stuff). And I had the same thoughts that I did the first time around, which I don't think I shared here: when Dan said "the sole reason" he doesn't want to show his bedroom is because of its lack of houseplants a went off in my head.
He mentioned the lack of plants and their importance as an aesthetic like half a dozen times. If I were analyzing a ls like literature (which I get it's not) I would say that plants are a metaphor for Phil. Curiously someone in the chat mentioned that there are plants that can survive without sunlight and he asked if there are humans that can, which yeah he was probably referring to himself to be relatable but... And the keeping the curtains drawn could be a metaphor for the privacy of their relationship. Or of course I could just be reading too much into this. Thoughts?
Still curious why he even did the ls there. He mused about possibly doing more ls in his bedroom and about changing where he films his videos and the possibility of eviction.
All sorts of directions.
OOO are the results from the survey out? I wasn't aware!
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 4:18 pm
by alittledizzy
BSV wrote:OOO are the results from the survey out? I wasn't aware!
At the moment they're being released a few a day in graph form. Check out the Dan and Phil Survey tumblr to browse through what's already there! #spon
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 4:22 pm
by BSV
alittledizzy wrote:
BSV wrote:OOO are the results from the survey out? I wasn't aware!
At the moment they're being released a few a day in graph form. Check out the Dan and Phil Survey tumblr to browse through what's already there! #spon
Oh great thanks!
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 4:38 pm
by rizzo
Nyargh!! I'm so excited about the survey results. Gimme dat analysis, I am here for it. I'm already fascinated by the significant uptick in discovery of both D&P in 2015 and am curious what the breakdown of just the 2015-ers is for how (and why, but that's not really a question) they discovered them. Like - was it just the significant increase in promo content (for the book/movie/tour) all over the internet that did it?
In other news, I'd really like Dasher & Dancer to release a gaming video today.
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 4:50 pm
by autumnhearth
Ooo results! I find the discovery stats really interesting and that much more people found out about Phil through, not vice versa. (Okay maybe not that surprising). Very excited to see more results. Thanks to everyone who worked on this!
Also love the Chinese astrology info btw. I read up a bit on sheep/ram/goat, a bit more hit or miss for Dan. I can see some of it. Generous, just, kind, and dislike conflict.
"When everything goes extremely smoothly in their lives, they appear graceful. If something goes especially wrong in their careers or other aspects of life, they will become very sentimental and pessimistic, even world weary."
Going to cherry pick some bits here:
"Throughout their lives they never worry about the three necessities: food, housing and clothes. Wherever they go, they will make friends with other people, and they will treat their colleagues honestly. Those born in the year of sheep are destined to have good marriages. They will be loved not only by their spouses, but also by family relatives." (Aww. Can't help but think about the Lesters.)
"They like to do things that they are interested in, and realize their dreams in a natural way. When there's something they are unwilling to do, they always refuse with the greatest gentleness and patience. No one knows their true feelings on such occasions, unless they are in rage. As a matter of fact, they are good at settling disputes and creating a harmonious atmosphere around themselves." (Or trying at least, Customer Service blog anyone?)
"They seldom speak in a straightforward way,especially the less well-bred ones among them,which often annoys other people. Never count on them to pour out everything on their minds at once." (Waffley Dan)
"It's best for people born in the year of sheep to cooperate with someone who has a strong character. Only under strict working rules and the leadership of hard-minded colleagues, can they make full use of their abilities and work efficiently. So it's best to help them get rid of their "dependent mentality." (Phil. Dear god.)
"It seems that people born in the year of sheep are melancholy and sentimental by nature. They always look upon the world passively. Besides, they are used to counting on others to cheer them up. It is easy for them to get lost and to be blue when frustrated, and to make improper choices when going shopping." (The last bit is just funny to imagine.)
"People born in the year of sheep are good at covering up their own weakness with petty shrewdness, and in obtaining what they want by clever tricks and hints. They are also talented in the skill of pestering. Their sincere and composed manner and their pitiful looks always prove effective in persuading other people to do them favors." (Mmmhmm...)
"They never hurt the feelings of their friends. Sometimes they even give up taking part in social contacts in order to avoid disputes. They are sensitive, and often indulge themselves in sentimental illusions rather than jolly parties. They also like to attract others' attention and flattery regarding their talent. They would be wise to take up professions that enable them to use their strong points. Often doing some down-to-earth job is the best choice for them."
"If they're not born during hours dominated by zodiac animals such as dragon, snake or tiger (every two hours of a day is dominated by a different zodiac animal according to the traditional Chinese timing system), they will not be qualified for jobs requiring a strong sense of responsibility and quick decisions. They may do jobs allowing them to have their own way within the bounds of law." (*runs upstairs to grab TABINOF* lets see he was born at about 6:30am. *quick google search* that's the hour of the rabbit. Yep, that's Dan.)
Re: Dan & Phil Part 51: Master of Erotic Massages
Posted: Wed Aug 02, 2017 5:22 pm
by autumnhearth
Ugh, ^ that should say "found out about Phil through Dan".
Sorry for the double post, I'm outside of the editing window.
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