In other news I'm mailing Dan "This ice skating anime, It's not actually going to be gay, its probably just going to be homoerotic" Howell a hat he can eat.
Anyone know a good address?
I mean, I get it, we were all cynical, but you gotta have hope in this world for these things to happen.
The best part of this is watching the people who are turned off from it now that it is actually gay instead of just flirting gay who are suddenly disgusted with it. What's wrong, can't handle an actual supportive loving relationship between two men? Unfollowing people feels so good at times like this. They just come out of the woodwork.
i can't even describe how happy i am to see dan eat his words
edit: i just spent forever looking for dan in the reflection of phil's glasses only to scroll down and realize he was leaning out of the frame
Hey look what I found in an old radio show - Dan and Phil disagreeing on the importance of weddings and it hasn't made phandom history somehow???
Phil: "Weddings aren't that fun really are they."
Dan: "........It's important!"
Phil: "It's important."
Dan: "Ok."
Phil: "...It's important that you go to them."
Catallena wrote:Seeing Chris tweeting them, my first thought was 'He should've texted that' and then immediately after that 'I wonder if they still have each other's numbers though...'
(If I remember correctly Chris said in a liveshow earlier this year he doesn't have Dan's number anymore...? Any crabstickz fans who remember?)
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felucca wrote:Hey look what I found in an old radio show - Dan and Phil disagreeing on the importance of weddings and it hasn't made phandom history somehow???
Hmm so does this mean Dan and Phil are likely to skip having an actual wedding altogether, or just have one that's really unconventional?
I posted this on the catrific thread, check out the Cat thread for some stimulating convo.
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I mean it was posted hours later after the selfie with I feel as if it's related towards the phandom that are probably posting Cat 'hate' or something (what's new). Cat has been getting 'hate' from the phandom for a while now, is a tweet really necessary?[/offtopic]
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felucca wrote:Hey look what I found in an old radio show - Dan and Phil disagreeing on the importance of weddings and it hasn't made phandom history somehow???
Hmm so does this mean Dan and Phil are likely to skip having an actual wedding altogether, or just have one that's really unconventional?
I just can't imagine Dan skipping a chance to buy fancy clothes, to decorate a venue to fit his aesthetic, and to be the dramatic center of attention.
felucca wrote:Hey look what I found in an old radio show - Dan and Phil disagreeing on the importance of weddings and it hasn't made phandom history somehow???
Hmm so does this mean Dan and Phil are likely to skip having an actual wedding altogether, or just have one that's really unconventional?
I just can't imagine Dan skipping a chance to buy fancy clothes, to decorate a venue to fit his aesthetic, and to be the dramatic center of attention.
Agreed.
D&P strike me as very boring normal people about certain things that would do a 'traditional' wedding (not out of faith in tradition, just 'proper' I guess?). They might have changed opinions on certain things since 2013, especially if their personal/romantic relationships changed in any way (which I believe they have). That's an interesting find! (also I miss radioshow).
Wow, just think of all the possible designs for a wedding. I'm sure they'd have plenty of ideas and maybe hire a great wedding planner, but the phandom would do love it for them, goodness knows what everyone would come up with.
felucca wrote:Hey look what I found in an old radio show - Dan and Phil disagreeing on the importance of weddings and it hasn't made phandom history somehow???
Hmm so does this mean Dan and Phil are likely to skip having an actual wedding altogether, or just have one that's really unconventional?
I just can't imagine Dan skipping a chance to buy fancy clothes, to decorate a venue to fit his aesthetic, and to be the dramatic center of attention.
Agreed.
D&P strike me as very boring normal people about certain things that would do a 'traditional' wedding (not out of faith in tradition, just 'proper' I guess?). They might have changed opinions on certain things since 2013, especially if their personal/romantic relationships changed in any way (which I believe they have). That's an interesting find! (also I miss radioshow).
Weddings/marriage have exactly as much importance as the couple give it. /my2pworth
Also, worth noting that was talking about other people's weddings...
Now if you'll excuse me, I need to go get ready for one myself!
IckleMissMayhem's evil fic writing alter ego. :twisted:
sweetmm wrote:If there is a wedding, Dan will plan it entirely. Remember Phil's water theme park slide wedding
True. Maybe Dan would let Phil organise the honeymoon. Water park and rollercoasters, trip to a planetarium maybe, a funky bar 50 floors up a tower somewhere, all fun.
Sorry if this has already been answered, but do we have any explanation on why they have separate bedrooms in their apartment?
I have days where I really believe they are a happy and loving couple then I have days where I have doubts. All I know is that In my 33 years of life I don't know anyone who looks at someone the way Dan looks at Phil. Not even my parents.
MoonPride wrote:Sorry if this has already been answered, but do we have any explanation on why they have separate bedrooms in their apartment?
I have days where I really believe they are a happy and loving couple then I have days where I have doubts. All I know is that In my 33 years of life I don't know anyone who looks at someone the way Dan looks at Phil. Not even my parents.
They have royal blood in them, watch The Crown on netflix (j.k.)
MoonPride wrote:Sorry if this has already been answered, but do we have any explanation on why they have separate bedrooms in their apartment?
I have days where I really believe they are a happy and loving couple then I have days where I have doubts. All I know is that In my 33 years of life I don't know anyone who looks at someone the way Dan looks at Phil. Not even my parents.
My guess? Because they both genuinely wanted a space that was their own to escape to sometimes, since these are not two people who typically go out without each other - and because it gives them each a very customized filming place that fits their personalities.
MoonPride wrote:Sorry if this has already been answered, but do we have any explanation on why they have separate bedrooms in their apartment?
I have days where I really believe they are a happy and loving couple then I have days where I have doubts. All I know is that In my 33 years of life I don't know anyone who looks at someone the way Dan looks at Phil. Not even my parents.
My guess? Because they both genuinely wanted a space that was their own to escape to sometimes, since these are not two people who typically go out without each other - and because it gives them each a very customized filming place that fits their personalities.
Yep yep yep! There's also the whole thing of that it would be really hard to hide a relationship (*insert obligatory "if they were dating"*) if they shared a bedroom, but I don't think that was the main reason they got two bedrooms.
felucca wrote:Hey look what I found in an old radio show - Dan and Phil disagreeing on the importance of weddings and it hasn't made phandom history somehow???
Phil: "Weddings aren't that fun really are they."
Dan: "........It's important!"
Phil: "It's important."
Dan: "Ok."
Phil: "...It's important that you go to them."
As expected of Phil 'marriage is just a piece of paper' Lester :')
MoonPride wrote:Sorry if this has already been answered, but do we have any explanation on why they have separate bedrooms in their apartment?
I have days where I really believe they are a happy and loving couple then I have days where I have doubts. All I know is that In my 33 years of life I don't know anyone who looks at someone the way Dan looks at Phil. Not even my parents.
My guess? Because they both genuinely wanted a space that was their own to escape to sometimes, since these are not two people who typically go out without each other - and because it gives them each a very customized filming place that fits their personalities.
Yep yep yep! There's also the whole thing of that it would be really hard to hide a relationship (*insert obligatory "if they were dating"*) if they shared a bedroom, but I don't think that was the main reason they got two bedrooms.
It must be extremely stressful having to keep up the pretense of not being together. I don't know how they have managed it. Makes me sad for them.
I don't see any need for being sad for them. No doubt they're open (with whatever there is to be open about) in their private lives with close friends/family. They don't want certain areas of their lives available to the public and they've mostly managed to maintain the privacy they obviously want in those areas, soo..? I'm sad for me not having all the details I want that are ultimately unnecessary to my life and not actually any of my business. They seem happy and comfortable with what they've got going on, don't think they need any pity.
MoonPride wrote:It must be extremely stressful having to keep up the pretense of not being together. I don't know how they have managed it. Makes me sad for them.
Look at it less like a pretense and more like keeping what is important to them private. By staying private about the relationship they don't ever have to directly address all this overwhelming fan discussion and speculation. It also keeps the conversation from being about 'omg I bet they break up soon' which usually happens for most couples. If they were out there would be a whole new set of expectations and responsibilities placed on them.
(I mean, I'm still sure it's stressful, I just think that it's a decision they've made - and continuously make - because the opposite would be more stressful.)
I guess I just want them to be happy. Together or not. I don't think we'll ever know the truth if I'm honest and I'm ok with that. But speculating is fun and it gives me the feels lol.
is that really the only thing that's interesting on this trip in LA??
